My 120th Post: Smile :)

Mornings always bring out some changes in our moods....one day we wake up mad or the other just carry a feeling of loneliness....today I woke up, I didn't have either of those two....there was something hanging upon my face....I don't know where it came from or why is it really there but I have a smile on my face which is even smiling as I am writing this post.....regardless yesterday's ups and downs, am smiling today and I think it is really a blessing to smile like this....
At times there are some people in your contact list who just bring out a smile upon your face....their presence just makes it everything for you to achieve at that moment and you start smiling....words fade away and there is nothing to say at all except for passing a smile....every negative vibe dies off and a pleasant air fills the space....who knew that flexing few muscles could result in such a beautiful thing....
A smile is a solution to many problems...it can fix relations, it can cheer up people, it can give a feeling of warmth, it is just magical.....smile really isn't an answer of everything but the least it can do is to give someone a hope....a simple smile can cover up a large statement, 'don't worry, it will be alright..'...
I really don't have much to talk upon this topic because all I can think about is smiling at the screen....it is like I want to smile to all my readers and make them understand what I really want to say....this smile is a feeling of heaven....I really feel my heart flying towards the sky and there is no pain in it....it feels as if everything is cured by this smile I have right now.....it is like fight with me right now and all you would see is me smiling...okay yeah I would beat you back but with a smile and I guess that is what matters....
It might seem as if am a lunatic or something like that who is smiling all the time for nothing at all....yeah sure, maybe am gone goo goo but does it really matters? I mean at least I am happy from inside and my smile really boosts my soul....smiling a lot isn't bad if you ask me...sure it ain't healthy but still, it is the best feeling one can have and I am proud to have this as a part of my life...
People do various drugs just to achieve a state from where they can forget the life they are living...they go after meths or heroine and consume bags of money and destroy their health as well....for me, smiling is the best drug of them all....its cost are nominal and it is available all the time and it is good for health....so yeah, I am high but high upon my smile :)

My 119th Post: My Lady

When a guy grows up, a girl walks into his life without any invitation at times and remains not as a tenant but as the owner of his heart....he lets her be around him all the time and without her, he thinks he is simply incomplete and feels weak to face this world....that someone changes him and brings out someone whom the world had rarely seen....the perfect girl, though she might not be perfect for others but she is the jewel for that guy, the jewel which no one can value except him....
My lady, this seems a beautiful achievement in one's life and it is precious but the thing is that a jewel remains valuable until it gets praised by the world....this is the part where a guy falls behind and with time his lady feels that she is nothing but a trophy won and has earned a place upon his shelf....a lady ain't a trophy to place upon a shelf, she is to be cherished through out....
There are many girls who complain to their husbands that they don't have time for them or they don't care about them or stuff like they loved them before they were married and the love drowned after signing a piece of paper....mostly, they are wrong.....I am not defending those husbands because I believe that it is entirely their fault....a girl who left her house and her family to start a new one with a guy who once was a stranger, would want attention from him....she would want his time and his compliments.....loving someone and flirting etc is easier before marriage but continuing it afterwards is the main task in hand....guys mostly fall back in this situation...they have a thought in their minds that now that they have got the girl of their dreams, they need to concentrate upon their future so that his family may stand up strong....he isn't thinking wrong but the fault is in his balance.....when a husband comes home, his wife expects him to look at her and compliment over her dress maybe but mostly guys just change clothes and hit the sofa because they need a break and want to relax...
Ladies aren't tough to handle...little things are important for them...they make them happy and when their guy appreciates the effort, it is like a big achievement for them....instead of getting home from work and hitting shower, a guy can give his girl a hug and compliment upon maybe her dress or her hair or the flour upon her cheek....anything, it just shows that he notices and a girl wants nothing else just the thing that whom she exhausts herself for, notices her or not.....this is an era of mobiles and each and mostly everyone has one....when you were her boyfriend or fiance, there isn't any moment when you didn't message her and asked her what she was doing....after marrying, same can be done....it takes way too little effort....just show her that she is there in your mind....though she is there all the time but you need to show her that....just a simple way, tell her that you love her from time to time, that would fill her heart with butterflies...
I know I have compared a lady with materialistic things but my motive was positive...a lady is the most precious thing a guy can ask in his life time....she is the one who diverts him towards becoming a gentleman rather than turning into a beast....take care of her and make her view her as the centre piece of your life...if you achieve that, you would achieve a trailer of heaven upon this planet....
Even if you haven't met your lady yet, share this post with the ones who have that is if you like it and all :)

My 117th Post: Random Words

It has been around two months since I came out with my last post....somehow I am unable to write....when I write, I just lose the sight of my path and then there I am, with my words hanging without an edge and I keep on removing that post from my published list....I really don't know why but somehow I believe that I can't write any more....it is like I have a major block in my head which is making me post nothing though there are so many things to write upon here....I have many topics waiting for my mind to put out in words but when I start writing, I end up watching some video or playing those stupid facebook games....it is just like I have a torch while walking down the path in a darkness filled valley but what I miss are the batteries for my torch...somehow the writing spree is hung up as that light from that valley....
I really do want to write but I don't know why I keep resisting....I do believe that I am not a bad writer but well I guess there is this voice in my back head which keeps telling me that you really don't have much readers and it simply means that my writing is way worse than many....that voice has conquered my will I suppose....somehow I have lost the battle with that voice but I want to prove it wrong and want to win this war...so what if it won the battle, the war is still for me to win...

Writing all this has really brought me up....well literally speaking then I did change my posture from lying down to sitting up but well I think this is working....there is this light I can see at the moment which is trying to tell me to find the path....it is telling me that I haven't diverted much...the path is still there and the light is vibrating...o sorry, that was my cell phone so I guess no light at all....
I really think I should write again....I really do love writing and I was an idiot for ignoring this beauty...now writing all this I really think I have missed my hands upon this keyboard and making sounds like tic tic tic....and the pain from typing is really amazing....I don't know if you guys are really reading this still and if reading, you guys are not having an image of a lunatic blogger but I will write....I guess my block ends with this post and from tomorrow onwards insha-Allah, I will blog properly once more....
Best of luck to me guys and please keep on motivating me with your comments and your views...thank you...

My 99th Post: Illusioned Beauty

Before stepping out the door, they keep staring at the mirror and keep praising their beauty....beauty which is a secret shared by them and their beloved mirror....like the witch in Snow White, if girls these days ever asked their mirrors the question saying "mirror, mirror on the wall, who is the prettiest of us all", first there would be a choice question in front of them...the mirror would definitely want to ask them whether they are talking about the natural beauty or about the plastic which they wear to shine in public....
Most of you might have guessed what I am talking about but let me clarify for the ones who ain't following me....I am talking about makeup used by girls these days....there was a time when there was makeup found upon a lady's face but these days, there is a face hidden behind makeup....the worst thing is that girls have really learnt how to paint their face....their art is so good that one can not decide whether a girl is beautiful or

not without perfectly washing her face....
Well it may seem that I over exagerated while defining the use of makeup but trust me, it is true....look at girls in your work environment...I ain't asking one to be a pervert but just observe the fact that when they are there in normal days, they are just girls or maybe one or two are too beautiful but still most are just normal girls but when those same arrive in a party, you won't even recognise any....they would just be like girls from a different city whom you would have never met before...proper makeup makes them just like angels fallen from the sky where as, they are just girls....
Makeup can make a piece of coal look like a diamond and that theory is used in this case...though the coal may rejoice for a while in the mask of a diamond, it would always remain a piece of coal at the end of the day....instead of going after something which it isn't, the coal should try and be proud of its beauty.....the immense black colour and its silver shine are enough to capture anyone's sight...but yes, it is true that people go after the one which glows more....though diamond is made from coal, people still want a diamond ring instead of a coal ring....
Am not off the target here, I am just trailing towards the thought that why does a girl needs to shower her face just to look beautiful....every time when one asks this, the answer comes that because she wants to look pretty in front of others....to the ones who think in this way, I have something to say....how can someone accept your beauty if you aren't even accepting it yourself? One lives with a doubt in her beauty and expects others to believe that she really is beautiful, can't really happen.....even when others would believe in her beauty, she would still have second thoughts...
There are dark complexioned girls who want to get a fairer colour and yet on the other hand there are fairer girls who try to get tan....beauty is just mumbled jumbled here....no one really believes one to be beautiful until and unless there is some artificial touching....be what you are and stay happy in what you have....don't try to perfect what was already perfected by our Creator....
So well girls, stop deceiving by bathing in makeup...sure at times one needs little touches to cover rough patches or stuff like that, but those should be touches not a complete paint job....act as human beings, not like a dented car which needs a spray or two....

My 92nd Post: Bloody Mary

"Bloody Mary, Bloody Mary, Bloody Mary"

Dare to chant this while holding a mirror in one hand and no light except a flickering candle? No, I don't think you are brave enough to do that and greet your worst nightmare....she would love to hear you scream until you lose your voice and would steal the beauty from your face so that you would never dare to call upon her again.....
When I was young, Bloody Mary was a hot topic...well not exactly because of her legend or anything....one of my cousins was damn scared of her and I guess even now when he is around 24, Bloody Mary gives him goosebumps.....I did ask my dad once about her and he told me one of the tales that she was a beautiful girl whose beauty was envied by many and was forced to accept that she was hideous....then she hid in her room for ever and when she died, she haunted all the pretty ladies....

As a child, I wanted to meet her and tell her that she was mistaken about being hideous and was beautiful....I recall chanting this though I didn't believe in it but my cousin, he was elder than me, got scared so I thought he really saw her...so I tried calling her but she never showed up and I  wasn't able to tell her about her beauty and she kept living her ghostly life in misery....that is what I thought....
There are many tales about her and her horrors but none has any clear authenticity....my cousin was just scared without even getting a glimpse of her....his mind made him think that her name was horrid enough to haunt his nights....so there is no one who really can claim of viewing her and no one of this century can really do that....this is just a legend created after the name Mary Tudor, daughter of Henry the VIII.....she was referred as Bloody Mary because like her father, she was merciless....she was the Queen of England which was made possible by beheading her cousin who was the first proclaimed Queen...who so ever went against her, she just had them killed even people didn't had the right to follow the religion they wanted....the ones who chose a religion against hers, was burnt alive....
Mary was well known for her brutal acts....it is said that she wanted a heir for her throne and so after long, she started having signs of pregnancy and everyone was happy...but something odd happened....she didn't get her child with passing time.....there wasn't any delivery and after months, her stomach started shrinking and pregnancy ended but she neither had miscarriage or a child....it is believed that it was a ghost child...after a while she again had a false pregnancy and died soon after that....these facts grew up into bigger stories and soon Mary I became known to the world as Bloody Mary....
If you still want to try calling upon her and chanting Bloody Mary doesn't works, try chanting "I stole your child Bloody Mary", she would definitely come at that because no mother can bare anyone teasing her upon the death of her mysterious child.....

My 88th Post: Hijab

There is this thought going around in my head from long....I wasn't able to write on it because I wanted to experience more before I say something over it....I have noticed more and more women joining the circle of jihab and have started wearing abaya (the veil) so that is a good thing, right? but well what I have noticed is that most of them have forgotten the true essence of veiling themselves....today even abaya is worn just for the sense of fashion....most of the ladies these days don't have the real believe of hijab, they just do it because it is in or someone might have forced them to....so to them I would like to say that it isn't a fashion statement...
I guess most of my readers would be firstly questioning upon the right I have to talk about them, so for them I would like to say that I ain't pin pointing anyone, am just writing my thoughts and giving my views here.....after that their thought might be that at least they are veiling themselves so it is alright....well yes, it is good that at least they are trying to amend their dressing but that doesn't means that one is really covering herself from men....I mean hijab doesn't means only to wear a veil.....covering one's body is essential but that should be followed by both style and behaviour too....
What's on my mind is that I have noticed a lot of girls these days who wear abaya to veil themselves but most of them instead of covering their face, just wear a scarf....that covers the hair and it is believed that hair makes a woman more attractive...so wearing only a scarf instead of covering the face is also good but that doesn't means that the girl goes on covering herself with makeup or putting a brooch over her scarf....the motive of a hijab is to become unattractive to the opposite gender....by puffing makeup or wearing extra
jewelry or getting different colour combinations or attractive material for the cloth of a veil just kills the concept of hijab....even though you are wearing an abaya, the concept of covering yourself dies because you are still attractive to men and sure the men should lower their gaze but still, they are men and they would look if someone goes by and is pretty....I agree that there are totally and properly covered ladies and still men stalk them but here is the fault of those men not of those decent ladies....
The other thing which swims in my mind while thinking about girls who hijab is that most of them just wear an abaya, that is they don't really feel what it gives them instead they take it as a duty which a person does without any dedication.....yes, I know I shouldn't be judging those people but the thing is that how can a girl who veils herself in front of everyone, dress outstandingly in some party with perfect matching jewelry n shoes.....if that party is only women, then sure nothing wrong with that...but a girl veiling all the time she goes out and then is all dressed in a co-party feels like she doesn't really care whether to do hijab or not....else that type of a girl would be uncomfortable while revealing herself in front of the public....or another one who is also the veiling type, has no attention over who is present in the room or maybe watching her while she is doing some chores or anything...I mean the one who veils, remains conscious when she is some place where others can look at her....the door is opened and she is without any kinda hijab and the public can easily look at her while she moves on with what she wants to do....that girl if she was really into veiling herself, would be alert all the time....hijab doesn't means only to be unattractive by the body, but also one should use a proper type of tone and style when around people who she veils from....
So to all those who veil, it is really a good thing and many are proud of you but please do it properly and try to believe in hijab rather than just wearing an abaya and before taunting guys and pointing fingers over them, see if you are acting properly or not.....
To all the ladies who read it, please do not get offended by this post...this is just my observation and my thoughts and maybe it isn't for you (the one who is reading), it is for the ones whom I saw acting or behaving like this so just try to vision what I want to say....
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My 31st Post: Beauty & the Beast

The famous fairy tale which robbed the attention of many strong writers and directors, the famous tale of a beauty and a beast....there once lived a beast who lived all alone in a palace with the finest riches of the world....he spent his days and nights in sorrow and the grief of being what he was....in another corner, there was a beautiful maiden who was a merchant's daughter....destiny brought both of them together and joined them in the bond of love.....the once living beast was converted into a charming prince who was under a spell of a witch....

Well that is just a fairy tale....in real life things are a bit different....but still the sidelines are the same....somewhere in this world, there would be a beauty entitled to a beast...with her love, the beast may transform into a normal human being....or maybe the other way round....but still the story does remain in books of reality.....
Someone isn't a beast just by looks...the same way, some one ain't a beauty cause of the looks....looks define nothing just that your eyes are pleased to see that face or not.....but beauty can't get the person make a stay in the heart.....the most beautiful girl or the most charming guy in this world may make you view them again and again but that doesn't certifies that you would will to stay with them forever....spending time with someone not only depends upon their outer beauty but also depends upon their inner soul....well it merely should depend upon the outer beauty but people are picky, they befriend someone not until and unless they find them attractive....
The story 'Beauty and the Beast' was a nice tale but I always expected a better plot...the writer tells us that love can happen between anyone and it has the power to break any spell but the part I don't like is mainly its description about the beast....the looks are mainly emphasized and that is what creates a question in my mind....a person doesn't needs to be beautiful in order to be a great human being, that someone just needs to have a heart which beats not accordingly to the brain....instead of making Belle, the beauty, the captive of the beast and become mesmerized by the riches, they could have just shown the friendship between those two starting off from a random meeting which with time turns into real love...proving that no matter how you look, its the personality and the nature which conquers the heart....but well the writers had something else in their minds....
My advise to all would be to run after the real beauty which is the personality of a person and try not to be the judge of the cover....not everyone is the same and if you are better than someone in looks, that doesn't means you are above them...it just means you are blessed with the outer beauty cause you required it more than the other person....so instead of being proud, shine your inner beauty by not caring about what the mirror shows....life is more beautiful that way....
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