My 119th Post: My Lady

When a guy grows up, a girl walks into his life without any invitation at times and remains not as a tenant but as the owner of his heart....he lets her be around him all the time and without her, he thinks he is simply incomplete and feels weak to face this world....that someone changes him and brings out someone whom the world had rarely seen....the perfect girl, though she might not be perfect for others but she is the jewel for that guy, the jewel which no one can value except him....
My lady, this seems a beautiful achievement in one's life and it is precious but the thing is that a jewel remains valuable until it gets praised by the world....this is the part where a guy falls behind and with time his lady feels that she is nothing but a trophy won and has earned a place upon his shelf....a lady ain't a trophy to place upon a shelf, she is to be cherished through out....
There are many girls who complain to their husbands that they don't have time for them or they don't care about them or stuff like they loved them before they were married and the love drowned after signing a piece of paper....mostly, they are wrong.....I am not defending those husbands because I believe that it is entirely their fault....a girl who left her house and her family to start a new one with a guy who once was a stranger, would want attention from him....she would want his time and his compliments.....loving someone and flirting etc is easier before marriage but continuing it afterwards is the main task in hand....guys mostly fall back in this situation...they have a thought in their minds that now that they have got the girl of their dreams, they need to concentrate upon their future so that his family may stand up strong....he isn't thinking wrong but the fault is in his balance.....when a husband comes home, his wife expects him to look at her and compliment over her dress maybe but mostly guys just change clothes and hit the sofa because they need a break and want to relax...
Ladies aren't tough to handle...little things are important for them...they make them happy and when their guy appreciates the effort, it is like a big achievement for them....instead of getting home from work and hitting shower, a guy can give his girl a hug and compliment upon maybe her dress or her hair or the flour upon her cheek....anything, it just shows that he notices and a girl wants nothing else just the thing that whom she exhausts herself for, notices her or not.....this is an era of mobiles and each and mostly everyone has one....when you were her boyfriend or fiance, there isn't any moment when you didn't message her and asked her what she was doing....after marrying, same can be done....it takes way too little effort....just show her that she is there in your mind....though she is there all the time but you need to show her that....just a simple way, tell her that you love her from time to time, that would fill her heart with butterflies...
I know I have compared a lady with materialistic things but my motive was positive...a lady is the most precious thing a guy can ask in his life time....she is the one who diverts him towards becoming a gentleman rather than turning into a beast....take care of her and make her view her as the centre piece of your life...if you achieve that, you would achieve a trailer of heaven upon this planet....
Even if you haven't met your lady yet, share this post with the ones who have that is if you like it and all :)

My 117th Post: Random Words

It has been around two months since I came out with my last post....somehow I am unable to write....when I write, I just lose the sight of my path and then there I am, with my words hanging without an edge and I keep on removing that post from my published list....I really don't know why but somehow I believe that I can't write any more....it is like I have a major block in my head which is making me post nothing though there are so many things to write upon here....I have many topics waiting for my mind to put out in words but when I start writing, I end up watching some video or playing those stupid facebook games....it is just like I have a torch while walking down the path in a darkness filled valley but what I miss are the batteries for my torch...somehow the writing spree is hung up as that light from that valley....
I really do want to write but I don't know why I keep resisting....I do believe that I am not a bad writer but well I guess there is this voice in my back head which keeps telling me that you really don't have much readers and it simply means that my writing is way worse than many....that voice has conquered my will I suppose....somehow I have lost the battle with that voice but I want to prove it wrong and want to win this war...so what if it won the battle, the war is still for me to win...

Writing all this has really brought me up....well literally speaking then I did change my posture from lying down to sitting up but well I think this is working....there is this light I can see at the moment which is trying to tell me to find the path....it is telling me that I haven't diverted much...the path is still there and the light is vibrating...o sorry, that was my cell phone so I guess no light at all....
I really think I should write again....I really do love writing and I was an idiot for ignoring this beauty...now writing all this I really think I have missed my hands upon this keyboard and making sounds like tic tic tic....and the pain from typing is really amazing....I don't know if you guys are really reading this still and if reading, you guys are not having an image of a lunatic blogger but I will write....I guess my block ends with this post and from tomorrow onwards insha-Allah, I will blog properly once more....
Best of luck to me guys and please keep on motivating me with your comments and your views...thank you...

My 49th Post: Accusations

Life really sets a laugh at times....you don't know of something, but you are accused of doing that...you are sitting there by yourself and suddenly someone tells you that you had done something which they got to know of and you go completely blank because there is nothing in your memory about that....it is like going to a war and you forget to load your gun...

What is the fun in that? If something didn't happen, then why to accuse someone of doing that...okay if someone really did do that then two questions prompt up in my head..1) why wasn't the person accused, notified about it in person by the accuser and 2) why does the topic starts off after years that follow....haha it seems a joke....if you can't be man enough to face the person then it means maybe what said was a lie so what is the need of accusing?
The worst part in this little tale is that the accuser gets audience which follows him/her around...the audience without hearing out the accused, believes each and every single word and then the innocent is trademarked of doing that even though he didn't...
What was the reason behind all this? nothing just a lame publicity stunt which made the accuser's rating rise in front of the people and the person blamed gets a hit on the ground...its really a shame how easy the people diverse and without even looking at the situation, they charge the accused guilty....
This clearly tells that it takes a life time to make a personality but a false statement can ruin each and every bit of it....it would take out the shine from it and let it rust.....but the sad part is that the people whom someone believes that they know him/her, just turn against in a glimpse of a moment....why can't people evaluate the truth....so maybe the accused is guilty but was he/she asked for a confession? did anyone inquire from that someone? if not then before developing negative thoughts, just clear things up...if you don't, you would definitely lose a contact from your Facebook account....
All the accusers, please be reasonable...if you really want to implant a tale upon someone, try to do your homework upon the person and then say it because the truth never hides and when you are faced naked in front of everyone, no matter how much you cover, you would still remain without a veil....
Tc people, do comment and please try not to plant false statements upon someone because that is one of the most disgusted things ever...o and yeah do share.... 

My 45th Post: Love Between a Gender

The day before yesterday, I was in a chat room where I met a guy who started chatting with me....he was a nice kid and we chatted for a while and suddenly he decided to leave...when I asked him why, he told me that he was jealous of me....that felt odd because I didn't tell him anything about myself which would make me a cool guy or something....after a while of convincing, he told me the reason and that seemed a serious matter...the reason for jealousy was that I liked girls and he unfortunately liked guys....that led to a state of confusion in his life....
A guy loving a guy as a brother, friend or any relation which is off the bed is valid but a guy dating a guy is odd....same goes for girls.....if someone goes against the laws of nature, he/she would definitely be confused because that is not how things work....a gay couple sitting in a park holding hands in between 5 other couples who are straight, points it as the odd one out...even that behavior can disturb other couples and make them leave the area....the society doesn't accept it and it shouldn't accept it either....
Scientifically there is no reason for being a gay or a lesbian....science has no answer in this matter, it just can predict that maybe this change in orientation is caused by environmental factors or just the psychology of that human being....like that kid, there are many who are facing this problem but still there are those who have accepted this and are going against nature.....
The question here is that why being a homosexual is wrong.....accusing someone is way too easy but making someone understand the point is tough...before starting any explanation, I want to ask any homosexual here that can you guys have a baby? well no, you can't....except that you adopt someone, you can't bare your own child....the combination of a guy and a girl produces a new offspring which is how this world continues to grow....every year there are deaths and births taking place....if you cancel out any one of them, this world would be unbalanced....many deaths and no births would lead to a drop in mankind and on the other hand many births and no deaths would limit the resources and there would be nothing for humanity to survive upon...in both the cases, there is an end to this human race....
Imagine if everyone turns out to be a gay or a lesbian, what would happen....there would be no birth ratio because a man can't have a man's child neither a woman can have a woman's child....deaths would continue because we are mortal.....there would be an end to relations because if we look closely then every relation on this planet is born by the matrimony of a man and a women....the human race would divide apart ending to a limit of just being a couple and nothing else.....in simple words, life would tend to disappear from this planet and it would be a trailer of hell on Earth...
If you are having trouble in getting your mind off the same gender, then just keep on reminding yourself that you love the opposite gender...keep on motivating yourself to the ones who are not like your body type....instead of accepting to be a homosexual, keep on telling your mind to stop playing jokes on you and you are straight in orientation....not only Islam disallows and hates these kind of people, but every other religion is against them.....religion is the perfect guidance for humans and if that is against something, then accept it that you are doing something wrong.....
I have no intention of offending anyone here, just wanted to post my views and I hope you all would agree to them no matter from what cast, religion, or orientation you are from.....choose wisely as what you do may affect you and other people in many ways....
Tc, comment and do share.....

My 42nd Post: Right or Wrong

There are always two sides to a decision, right and wrong.....if its right, then everything is swell but if its wrong, things get unbalanced....but the confusing part is when we don't know what the outcome would be....but still that is easy to go through because we know that the decision might be correct just the outcome has a chance....at times, the decision itself is in the selection phase....the decision might be right or wrong....when that happens, it is really tough to select because its hard to overlook the decision....
Everybody hopes that the life would have been really easy....there would have been no requirement of thinking over a matter, just do what the heart says and the consequences wouldn't matter at all....but that isn't how life is....every single thing needs to be as perfect as possible..if not, then serious issues occur....
At times the heart will go with something which is truly wrong but still we want to do that because it seems as if everything revolves around that matter.....it keeps bugging until that is done and when finished, makes us all gloomy and off the shores of life....it is really complicated how things change and happen.....but well in the end, the fight between right and wrong continues....the decision is made but things map up in a way to take another step which then seems wrong or maybe right but the timing may be wrong.....

I am just thinking, everything is divided among these two categories.....a right thing for me may not be right for you and in the same way a wrong act may seem a right act to you.....simple example, selecting a medical university may be wrong for me but a right act for someone reading this post....but here I am mainly concerned with the logical point of view not the likes and dislikes or the capabilities......a thought should be right but how to distinguish it is the main deal.....how to know what is right and what is wrong....if I tell my methodology then I simply think that if what I am doing can be shared with my parents and can be openly talked about in the society, then there is nothing wrong with that.....but if doing something, I have to hide the tale and keep aloof from people, then I need to rethink over it.....it is easy to do wrong but when the time comes to convert that wrong into something right, then things mess up....
I wouldn't suggest to do what the heart says....heart speaks a lot and it really knows what we want and what we desire...it just wants us happy and wants us to keep smiling but doesn't thinks that maybe what it advises would be the source of pain in the mere future.....so listen to your heart, consider its thoughts but do keep your mind's point of view in your head and then make any decision....there are least chances to do wrong, mostly you would end up with a right decision but do keep in mind that maybe that right decision might hurt you for a while but that would save you from a bitter future.....
Keep smiling, stay safe, comment and share.......

My 40th Post: Blame Game

Doing something is really easy...you just have to choose what you have to do and then make up your mind to do it....if the thing goes well, then it awaits some applause but if it goes wrong, then you can save yourself easily by blaming someone....that is how things work but that is what I am against....that is not the way people should live on....blaming someone is not the answer to your failure.....if you blame someone just because you couldn't do it then it shows how low graded you may be....
There is a thing in my mind and I know I can do it....instead of going through the plan, I give it a try.....I fall badly on my face....the act was a disaster...instead of realizing my fault, I simply blame my parents or someone else that they could have stopped me....is that the right thing to do? am I that blind that I don't see where I went wrong? I should have thought over it properly instead of rushing to the scene of action.....that would be completely my fault....even if someone would have advised me, I would have gone with what I wanted to do...and if I had agreed to someone who would have told me to quit the idea and then I came to know that it was one brilliant idea but there is no more time to carry it on, I would still be blaming because I didn't do it just because of that someone...
Why don't we rely just on our thinking? talking to someone and hearing their advise doesn't means that we have to follow it on any cost...that just means that we are trying to pick a safe corner before doing something....still we are the ones to take the decision not them....we are the ones to be blamed, not them....we have enough capability to see the outcome of our decision.....so what if it went wrong, we should be strong enough to stand by it instead of telling the crowd that it was his idea not mine...I didn't want to do this, he insisted....now that is simply a sign of a coward....if you blame people just because you did what they advised you to do, then I hope you have enough confidence to step up to the world as a coward....
Be fair guys....if you don't have the guts of doing something, then don't do it rather than killing someone's respect....blaming someone has one worst result, you would never be trusted by the person whom you blamed even if that someone was your best-friend...that someone had to go through rough comments and face shame just because you told everyone that you are the innocent one sitting in between....don't ruin the sails and drown the ship specially when saving a name after something so little....and if you have already blamed someone, then try to fix things by accepting the fall rather than supporting your false statement....you still have time to do the right thing but remember, if you blamed in public, then clear the things in the same crowd....
Learn to preserve things specially relations....if you blame someone in order to make a new relation or save an other, you are truly making a mistake....there are other ways to do things....to break something in order to gain an other still leaves you with a single thing in hand....understand it, its simple math people...so stop blaming and try to be honest with everyone, that would earn you respect and trust....
Tc, comment and share.....