There is always a set of rules following each and everything we do....no matter what that might be but the rules remain firm...they are flexible at times but they should never be broken because they are really worth respecting...why would there be a rule for something if it is only going to be against us for no reason? each and every rule is there to keep us safe and out of trouble...but still it is in the human nature to bend things according to their flexibility....
But what if a person falls in love before time? What if the person is still immature and senses the feeling created by love? A lot of the people would disagree with this because adults believe that it can only happen when someone grows old and before that time its only lust or some affection....I would disagree to them with a simple statement that a person, when immature, has a rarely corrupt mind....when someone young says that he/she is in love, that truly means he/she is attracted by the nature of the person and feels the will to spend time with that someone not anything else....here my mind jolts me with a question that what adults call love is something else then?....so dear mind, what grown ups describe love is also love but after evaluating the other person from head to toe....they go through every detail and then start loving, not like a teenager that a guy likes a girl only because she is kindhearted and is there for him.... in fact love, when young, is mostly the purest form of love a person can have....but still loving at a small age has its consequences and may affect someone's life real bad....
Love, one word which can sooth the seven seas or bring down a torment upon the entire human race....no one has a control over falling in the pit of love but they certainly can draw up some limits but more importantly, can set up priorities....all this control and the work of thinking requires maturity which in most cases comes with age....when a person is mature, love can be in his/her heart but still the choice would be in the favor of the logic ruling the world....
But what if a person falls in love before time? What if the person is still immature and senses the feeling created by love? A lot of the people would disagree with this because adults believe that it can only happen when someone grows old and before that time its only lust or some affection....I would disagree to them with a simple statement that a person, when immature, has a rarely corrupt mind....when someone young says that he/she is in love, that truly means he/she is attracted by the nature of the person and feels the will to spend time with that someone not anything else....here my mind jolts me with a question that what adults call love is something else then?....so dear mind, what grown ups describe love is also love but after evaluating the other person from head to toe....they go through every detail and then start loving, not like a teenager that a guy likes a girl only because she is kindhearted and is there for him.... in fact love, when young, is mostly the purest form of love a person can have....but still loving at a small age has its consequences and may affect someone's life real bad....
When we are young, only few of us realize that having a strong career is essential for the upcoming years....things don't just happen, we make them happen, that is with the help of our Lord....loving at an age when there is no sense of responsibility, a young mind may divert and eventually lure away from the path which was right....bad choices are made without even thinking about the outcomes....everything blurs up and the only sight available is the lover's portrait in the heart....
There is an equal chance of getting accepted and rejected....things are better if both unite and stay together but when the proposal is denied, the heart trembles and at a young age it is not possible for many to stand up straight and move on....the heart is weak at that age and a blow like that seems too much to handle...dreams shatter and the soul goes into depression....for a mature person, it may take a while but he/she moves on but a young heart clamps that denial and remains there....
I can't say don't love when you are young or immature because that is just not what a person can do....but I would say that before you fall in love at any age, try to set up the priorities and always keep in mind that family comes first than the rest...if you can't maintain your old relations then you won't be able to stand with the new one....and secondly if someone is against your decision of loving someone, just try to consider their point of view specially when they are older than you because trust me, with age experiences increase and things do change how they looked when we were young....
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