My 106th Post:Do Men Really Hate Women?

Man has always relied upon women for his existence....he depends upon each and everyone of the ladies in his life for his success....it can be the positive or a negative impact of a women but in the end, a women is required for success...to start, men also needs a women to take his foot out in this world...so he is totally dependent upon that specie....still in the end, a lot are heard saying that they hate women and don't want them in their life....in the blood of frustration, they claim that there is no space for a woman in their life and they are better off without her....they put up this sign in their head that the love for the opposite gender just died after their worst experience with them and preach to the world that it is better to avoid them and stay aloof from them....
Well, is that really true? In the end, each and everyone winds up in a certain relation with another one....so saying that men hate women is just a statement to make them realise that how much we want them in our life and to which extent it hurts when they leave us one way or another.....we become spoilt kids and things turn grey....men do not hate women, they just hate the fact that in the end of the day they need their support to regain their energy to face the next day of this bitter life....we need a mother's lap in the end of the day for a peaceful nap, a sister's love and joy when we get back home and a lover's awaiting eyes....
It's just the frustration talking because man needs a woman to prosper....she provides him a reason to reach the stars and she is the first one in most cases to believe in his dreams...she always stays by his side in his good and in his bad just to support him when he falls....men really love women to an extent that most of the times, they overlook the mistakes and the silly wishes or better to say unreasonable requests by women....if men really hated women, till now, the world might had ended because of the stubbornness of the male specie....none of my forefathers might have existed so in the end, I might not be here typing this post...
When a person is hurt, he/she might blabber foolish words just like a drunk....if someone says that he hates women, he just might be hurt...I know some of you might think that he might just be gay but I would disagree because no matter what someones orientation is, this statement comprises each and every women in his life....no one can hate each and every women....so the hate for the whole specie is just impossible for someone to achieve....whenever you hear someone saying this, just realise that he needs comfort and is hurt by someone and needs a fresh start.....
Women really are a blessing in this life....it is a wonderful thing that care and love came in different forms.....

My 88th Post: Hijab

There is this thought going around in my head from long....I wasn't able to write on it because I wanted to experience more before I say something over it....I have noticed more and more women joining the circle of jihab and have started wearing abaya (the veil) so that is a good thing, right? but well what I have noticed is that most of them have forgotten the true essence of veiling themselves....today even abaya is worn just for the sense of fashion....most of the ladies these days don't have the real believe of hijab, they just do it because it is in or someone might have forced them to....so to them I would like to say that it isn't a fashion statement...
I guess most of my readers would be firstly questioning upon the right I have to talk about them, so for them I would like to say that I ain't pin pointing anyone, am just writing my thoughts and giving my views here.....after that their thought might be that at least they are veiling themselves so it is alright....well yes, it is good that at least they are trying to amend their dressing but that doesn't means that one is really covering herself from men....I mean hijab doesn't means only to wear a veil.....covering one's body is essential but that should be followed by both style and behaviour too....
What's on my mind is that I have noticed a lot of girls these days who wear abaya to veil themselves but most of them instead of covering their face, just wear a scarf....that covers the hair and it is believed that hair makes a woman more attractive...so wearing only a scarf instead of covering the face is also good but that doesn't means that the girl goes on covering herself with makeup or putting a brooch over her scarf....the motive of a hijab is to become unattractive to the opposite gender....by puffing makeup or wearing extra
jewelry or getting different colour combinations or attractive material for the cloth of a veil just kills the concept of hijab....even though you are wearing an abaya, the concept of covering yourself dies because you are still attractive to men and sure the men should lower their gaze but still, they are men and they would look if someone goes by and is pretty....I agree that there are totally and properly covered ladies and still men stalk them but here is the fault of those men not of those decent ladies....
The other thing which swims in my mind while thinking about girls who hijab is that most of them just wear an abaya, that is they don't really feel what it gives them instead they take it as a duty which a person does without any dedication.....yes, I know I shouldn't be judging those people but the thing is that how can a girl who veils herself in front of everyone, dress outstandingly in some party with perfect matching jewelry n shoes.....if that party is only women, then sure nothing wrong with that...but a girl veiling all the time she goes out and then is all dressed in a co-party feels like she doesn't really care whether to do hijab or not....else that type of a girl would be uncomfortable while revealing herself in front of the public....or another one who is also the veiling type, has no attention over who is present in the room or maybe watching her while she is doing some chores or anything...I mean the one who veils, remains conscious when she is some place where others can look at her....the door is opened and she is without any kinda hijab and the public can easily look at her while she moves on with what she wants to do....that girl if she was really into veiling herself, would be alert all the time....hijab doesn't means only to be unattractive by the body, but also one should use a proper type of tone and style when around people who she veils from....
So to all those who veil, it is really a good thing and many are proud of you but please do it properly and try to believe in hijab rather than just wearing an abaya and before taunting guys and pointing fingers over them, see if you are acting properly or not.....
To all the ladies who read it, please do not get offended by this post...this is just my observation and my thoughts and maybe it isn't for you (the one who is reading), it is for the ones whom I saw acting or behaving like this so just try to vision what I want to say....
People do share and please feel free to comment.....

My 84th Post: Independent Women

As I was driving, a thought crossed my mind...there was a time once when the roads were filled with man drivers....the roads were our battle fields and we ruled it from ages but now, I see long haired, goggle eyed or creatures in scarves buzzing in from every possible angle or in any manner available at choice....those beautiful and breath drying creatures are the females of the human species....once they were locked off in their house chores, but now they are out trying to step besides the alpha male....
Well, am not going to debate upon who is better amongst both because that topic won't ever come to a conclusion as somehow it is going to lead towards unfair votes.....what I am typing here is that these days, you might find a woman in any designated post which once a male thought he can only master....well not in all but yes, surely in a lot of those positions women not only have stood up straight, but also have performed much better than men....at each step, on either side, where once stood a competitor male now stands a female waiting to step up and conquer the position with pride....
Since the beginning of this world, women weren't given their proper share in the upbringing of this humanity....few amongst many gave respect to women but many degraded them and mocked upon their existence forgetting the fact that they once came from the womb of a women.....man surely is stronger than
women because that is how he is made but his power blocks his senses and he forgets that his power exists just because there was a mother who held him in for 9 months and then brought him up.....the savage nature of man, tortured women and then came a time of uprising by women....they stood up and walked behind men and now they are walking strong besides men....
From the right to vote, they themselves are standing as nominees.....time have changed and they, the women,  are changing with each passing day....today's woman, doesn't relay upon anyone...she alone can carry herself to the edge of success....she has the might, the will and the determination to stand on a cliff and shout out her name with pride....man is merely weak these days, its not the woman who requires support, but it is the man who needs a hand of a woman.....
Well, being independent and standing for their rights is good but most get carried away....a lot of those women do the same blunder which once man did....he never respected the position of women and now, women are doing the same...in their pride and ego, they at times forget that the other species living as a human also needs respect....women just flaunt off in their heads that they are the best and nothing can be compared to what they have....am sorry to all who feel that way....man built this world with woman beside him, so both are required when we talk about the prosperity of humanity....so live independent but always remember that the balance lies with the hard work of both men and women....

My 66th Post: Giving Birth...Dedicated to All the Mothers

From the start of life on this planet, men have always treated women to be their inferior species...men has always come up with reasons to brag and humiliate women one way or an other......leaving other discussions behind, I think all this leads to one of the reasons which is jealousy...men somehow is jealous of women....to over come that jealousy, he just decides to invent stuff and try to produce one thing or an other...the reason of jealousy leads to the gift God have given women, the right to give birth....
Men has a share in it but still what the women does is nothing in front of his efforts....nourishing a child for 9 months inside the womb is big but developing a life out of nothing and then letting it out to live, is phenomenal....this is a blessing and a power which He have given women and I guess there is nothing to top that blessing....I have never been a parent but I can still imagine to an extent the feelings of a mother....I can feel the reason for her tears when her child is hurt...not because she only gave birth but mainly because her child was a part of her before it saw the lights in this world.....

Giving birth ain't an easy job....there is a lot to it....God knew that men wouldn't surpass this process because we men don't have the patience required for it.....we don't have the softness required to bring up a child....some men might contradict with my point but as far as I am concerned with my nature, I can say that if men were allowed to give birth and I had to go through this, I would have given up and even people wouldn't have advised me ever to think of baring one because besides physical pain, there is a lot of mental stress, emotional ups and downs and a lot of care is required....just imagine for nine whole months a person has to stay in a place, avoid any exciting activities, eat proper, sleep proper, take medications, e.t.c....it is just like becoming paralyzed and even after that time, taking care of the new born by destroying sleep and the social life....that is just too much to handle but still women take up this job with honor....sure it is their duty because if they don't then who would...but still a women can say no....she can just walk away but no....knowing each and everything, she still prays to be a mother one day...she knows that her breath might start to stink...her weight would increase...she would miss all the parties she wanted to go to....even knows that she might go into a state of depression but still she stands up and takes the job....9 months and no life to enjoy while we, the men, are enjoying each and every second of our life as we always did....I don't think there is any comparison to that....
While writing out this post, I just realized the reason why my mom is always worried about my eating and sleeping habits....I am 20 years old but still my mom calls in daily to check whether I have had something to eat or not....well that sometimes irritates me and she knows that but no matter what my reaction is, she would call again and again until she is satisfied with my answer....now I really know what she meant when she said that I won't understand her feelings because I am not a mother and won't ever be one....so respect and love for all those moms in this world and may they be blessed with the love of their kids till their last breath....
O to mention, the invention part was somthing I heard on t.v....take care of your moms, respect them, love them and cherish their feelings....
Tc, do comment and share.....

My 10th Post: Men v/s Women

hey ya all...I know my last post was kinda slazy but at least there was something to read rather than just an empty space :p well it is hot outside and I enjoyed playing football in the morning...wait sorry, my bad, took this post the wrong way :D
since the human beings  evolved from stone age to this modern age, a simple dispute always remained at it's side....no scientist or philosopher came up with any equation or theory to get to the bottom of a simple question that who is better, men or women....I would like to give it a try today :)
if we go through the history and past records, we can find both standing equally over all....at some instances men has the lead but at others, women are sitting above....so over all in my view, I would say men and women are both equal....men is known for strength from the start of time and women for her delicacy....I completely agree with this....it ain't that every single male specie is strong but considering the over all percentage, mostly males are strong....same goes for a female specie in the field of delicacy....there are always some exceptional cases where some people go beyond the capacity of there body type and achieve a height which makes them superior in their specie and at times a challenge for the other.....that doesn't means all would be the same....I mean those exceptional cases would be like 1 in 100....
for example, there are girls who are known for their strength, enough to take down a healthy guy and on the other hand their are guys who are so feminine that they can carry themselves better than a women herself.....these are just exceptions.....they do not define the characteristics of every single person.....
I mark them equally cause both are living and both have feelings....some express and some don't, it is just how they are built and meant to be....to challenge nature and start proving that one is better than other and interfering in each other's job, is disrupting the life's cycle....the downfall in the world's positiveness is mainly due to this simple reason....so it is better to stay how you are made....a women is best in giving birth to a life, men can't ever top her no matter how strong science gets....in the same way, men is best in war, no matter how weak he is, he would find a way cause he has a sheet over his heart.....
so simply people, stop arguing and live together in peace....no matter who is best, life needs both present in order to balance this world we are living in.....
Tc and comment please