Friday 24 August 2012

My 45th Post: Love Between a Gender

The day before yesterday, I was in a chat room where I met a guy who started chatting with me....he was a nice kid and we chatted for a while and suddenly he decided to leave...when I asked him why, he told me that he was jealous of me....that felt odd because I didn't tell him anything about myself which would make me a cool guy or something....after a while of convincing, he told me the reason and that seemed a serious matter...the reason for jealousy was that I liked girls and he unfortunately liked guys....that led to a state of confusion in his life....
A guy loving a guy as a brother, friend or any relation which is off the bed is valid but a guy dating a guy is odd....same goes for girls.....if someone goes against the laws of nature, he/she would definitely be confused because that is not how things work....a gay couple sitting in a park holding hands in between 5 other couples who are straight, points it as the odd one out...even that behavior can disturb other couples and make them leave the area....the society doesn't accept it and it shouldn't accept it either....
Scientifically there is no reason for being a gay or a lesbian....science has no answer in this matter, it just can predict that maybe this change in orientation is caused by environmental factors or just the psychology of that human being....like that kid, there are many who are facing this problem but still there are those who have accepted this and are going against nature.....
The question here is that why being a homosexual is wrong.....accusing someone is way too easy but making someone understand the point is tough...before starting any explanation, I want to ask any homosexual here that can you guys have a baby? well no, you can't....except that you adopt someone, you can't bare your own child....the combination of a guy and a girl produces a new offspring which is how this world continues to grow....every year there are deaths and births taking place....if you cancel out any one of them, this world would be unbalanced....many deaths and no births would lead to a drop in mankind and on the other hand many births and no deaths would limit the resources and there would be nothing for humanity to survive upon...in both the cases, there is an end to this human race....
Imagine if everyone turns out to be a gay or a lesbian, what would happen....there would be no birth ratio because a man can't have a man's child neither a woman can have a woman's child....deaths would continue because we are mortal.....there would be an end to relations because if we look closely then every relation on this planet is born by the matrimony of a man and a women....the human race would divide apart ending to a limit of just being a couple and nothing else.....in simple words, life would tend to disappear from this planet and it would be a trailer of hell on Earth...
If you are having trouble in getting your mind off the same gender, then just keep on reminding yourself that you love the opposite gender...keep on motivating yourself to the ones who are not like your body type....instead of accepting to be a homosexual, keep on telling your mind to stop playing jokes on you and you are straight in orientation....not only Islam disallows and hates these kind of people, but every other religion is against them.....religion is the perfect guidance for humans and if that is against something, then accept it that you are doing something wrong.....
I have no intention of offending anyone here, just wanted to post my views and I hope you all would agree to them no matter from what cast, religion, or orientation you are from.....choose wisely as what you do may affect you and other people in many ways....
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