My 106th Post:Do Men Really Hate Women?

Man has always relied upon women for his existence....he depends upon each and everyone of the ladies in his life for his success....it can be the positive or a negative impact of a women but in the end, a women is required for success...to start, men also needs a women to take his foot out in this world...so he is totally dependent upon that specie....still in the end, a lot are heard saying that they hate women and don't want them in their life....in the blood of frustration, they claim that there is no space for a woman in their life and they are better off without her....they put up this sign in their head that the love for the opposite gender just died after their worst experience with them and preach to the world that it is better to avoid them and stay aloof from them....
Well, is that really true? In the end, each and everyone winds up in a certain relation with another one....so saying that men hate women is just a statement to make them realise that how much we want them in our life and to which extent it hurts when they leave us one way or another.....we become spoilt kids and things turn grey....men do not hate women, they just hate the fact that in the end of the day they need their support to regain their energy to face the next day of this bitter life....we need a mother's lap in the end of the day for a peaceful nap, a sister's love and joy when we get back home and a lover's awaiting eyes....
It's just the frustration talking because man needs a woman to prosper....she provides him a reason to reach the stars and she is the first one in most cases to believe in his dreams...she always stays by his side in his good and in his bad just to support him when he falls....men really love women to an extent that most of the times, they overlook the mistakes and the silly wishes or better to say unreasonable requests by women....if men really hated women, till now, the world might had ended because of the stubbornness of the male specie....none of my forefathers might have existed so in the end, I might not be here typing this post...
When a person is hurt, he/she might blabber foolish words just like a drunk....if someone says that he hates women, he just might be hurt...I know some of you might think that he might just be gay but I would disagree because no matter what someones orientation is, this statement comprises each and every women in his life....no one can hate each and every women....so the hate for the whole specie is just impossible for someone to achieve....whenever you hear someone saying this, just realise that he needs comfort and is hurt by someone and needs a fresh start.....
Women really are a blessing in this life....it is a wonderful thing that care and love came in different forms.....

My 102nd Post: Sleep

"The night is here

The sun is gone,

Now sleep my dear

And await the dawn,

Close your eyes

And view those dreams,

Where there are no lies

And have happy screams,"

Sleep...a wonderful word which brings rest to a person's mind and soul....there is nothing in this world which can compare itself to a pleasurable sleep....it carries away all the troubles and sorrows, though just for a while but still, that is what the heart desires....
It is a platform for dreams, a doorway to the enchanting forests which lead towards the clouds of comfort....it is what a tired being desires, a peaceful walk towards the blessings of heaven, without even raising a foot to set off upon the journey.....no energy is required, no hard work is done just a simple task of closing the eyes and laying back in a search of comfort.....sleep will slowly and gradually take one in its arms and take him/her away from the stress of this world.....
This is a blessing which can't be denied....it cradles each and every living soul like a child and rocks it away from this chaotic world.....like a mother, it wraps us in its arms and makes us believe that there is nothing which requires our attention, there is nothing which is counting on us and there is nothing which can harm us at least till we cuddle it.....
We were born in this world to live our life and experience different shapes of it....there comes a time when we get tired of its scenes and its deceiving nature....we require some rest, a way to fill our worn out energy...that is the time when sleep hugs us and loves us like no one ever did.....it kisses us and nourishes us in each way possible....it tries to depict the world as positively as it can and sooth our mind so that we can rise once more and live on.....the time when we can't no more endure the pain and the sorrows, sleep takes us away with itself and hugs us tightly so that we don't wake up again in this world....it then guides the beautiful souls towards the land of happiness and joy where it departs and leaves us alone because it knows that we require it no more.....
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My 101st Post: Hunger

It is the month of Ramadan going around in the entire world...all the Muslims might be fasting during this month and keeping their stomach empty for hours and hours....this month is believed to bring blessings and motivates the followers from committing further sins....during a fast, there are certain rules and regulations to keep in mind and the most important one is not to eat or drink anything...
People might think that I am weak while fasting because this is the first month in all my years when I really am feeling lack of food in my stomach....it is somehow tough for me this year to keep up with the fast but still, Allah is supporting me to maintain my fasts and keep a hold upon my hunger....

The best part of feeling hungry for me is that in my entire life time, this is the first time when I have connected with the poor....Masha-Allah I have been brought up in a family where am blessed by Allah to keep me well fed and well dressed....He never made me go to bed without food and never made me shiver in the cold winds....I have always had a roof above my head and I thank Him from the depth of my heart....this year, while fasting, I am beginning to realise what it is to pass a day without food....though the fast is only for few hours, there are people who go hungry for days and nights....during these few hours, when I churned the desire for food, I started wondering that what would it be to be poor...how do people survive when they have nothing to eat or drink....it is really tough....the strength from the body starts deteriorating and everything seems to fade away with time....it feels as if I am going to collapse if I don't take a nibble....nothing seems to cool the mind off and each and everything seems tasty to the eyes.....
There are people in this world who have nothing to eat or drink....they work hard but still in the end sit with there heads in their laps without a bite to swallow....how would the ones feel who have their families to support but they can't even fulfil their own hunger....world is tough for them...on the other hand, there are people like you and me who are blessed with enough food to suppress our hunger and are blessed with enough drinks to flood our throats....we never really realised what would it be like without food and water....how would we ever survive....
Well, I thank Allah for giving me this chance of understanding the importance of food and making me aware about the blessings He has bestowed upon me and my family....if it weren't for this month of Ramadan, I might never had been thankful for all the food am provided with, from my heart....I would have just taken it for granted but insha-Allah from this day on, I would always respect food and keep in mind that how well am blessed....I intentionally wrote this post while fasting because I wanted to pour out my feelings when am being irritated by my hungry stomach...
May He bless us all and may each and everyone be thankful to Him.....

My 95th Post: The Hungry Men

When a child enters this world, the first thing it needs is to satisfy its hunger....once satisfied completely, it asks for more in a period of time and with the growing days, its hunger increases and increases....a time comes when that child turns into this common society man who gets hungry to an extent that he starts working hard to fill his growling stomach....hunger isn't only satisfied by food though that was the ideology as a child...with maturing brain, hunger takes different shapes and is also satisfied by the worldly desires....desires like wealth, power and reputation....
Man works hard, day and night, to earn what he desires....he keeps striking his luck in a hope that one day not only his stomach would be filled, but all his desires would be laid down in front of him in a golden platter....when he fails, he gathers up different excuses just to keep his brain intact so that he may start all
over again....
The worst aspect of being hungry is that hunger never dies...though it may seem to seize but it never dies.....after a while, a person feels hungry again and starts going around like a crazy beast...ones who are capable of soothing their hunger know there way out of this mess and the rest, cross every limit just to fulfil that worldly desire....they seem to find no other possible way to earn food for there family or enough money to live their life peacefully....when no other door opens up, they start robbing or killing people for money because they are just impatient and do not trust the One who made them....
I know that it would be tough and for a guy like me, Masha-Allah, I can not understand their feelings and their urgency but that doesn't give them any right to go on and mess with the ones who worked really hard for what they deserved....snatching someone's possessions just to satisfy one's family is the reason of killing the family of the victim.....who knows what type of wealth a person has...one who drives a car doesn't really means that he/she is wealthy...
I know that the government is to be blamed for such a rise in crime rates but that shouldn't be used as an excuse....our government has flaws, everyone knows that but that really doesn't means that one should go out and be a thief, a murderer or start up businesses like prostitution....that ain't the answer to the problems....there are ways to earn and not saying it just as a thought....these people should see the poor farming families who work day and night just to earn enough to eat for a single time....there are many jobs available but people want shortcuts to wealth and while taking one, they forget the initial desire of hunger in this society, a pious and respected life....
I really don't know how to stop these people who are building their castle upon other's gold but I do know that they are wrong and I would always try to raise my voice against them....may all of us be blessed and develop respect for each and everyone's right...

My 63rd Post: Choosing Between L's, Love or Lust

Its nothing new...happens a lot of times and each time there is rarely a true answer to it...when we meet someone or think about someone continuously just like a stalker, we start wondering and naming the feeling which we have grown...it can be either love or lust, one way or another, the person remains in your thoughts...
Love, that is a true feeling, a desire of having someone around you and spending as much time with that person as possible....never ending care for that someone develops in the heart and it seems as if thinking about that someone is more important rather than to sleep and give the body some rest...lust on the other hand, is similar to what I have described love but with a slight difference....with all the sensitive feelings, there is a feeling of being with that someone but hooking up in a physical act....so I would say that lust is the attraction of hormones whereas love is the bond due to the heart....or lust is pleasure and love is the feeling after pleasure, something like that....
It is really confusing while choosing between love and lust.....like for instance people refer to love at first sight...that is just attraction and when someone is attracted it simply means that they want more than just spending time looking into the eyes of that person....but still people say that is possible so for me I would say that it ain't love at first sight, instead it is somewhere in between love and lust.....what if someone knows someone well and wants to get into a relation...what would that be? love? can't it be lust? when someone loves someone, he/she would really want to be with that someone and at occasions would wanna hug or do something like that....those feelings arrive because they are physically attracted towards that person as well and with time, the desire increases....so what happened, did love turn into lust or was it lust all along or it was pure love....really confusing.....
Dreaming about someone and wishing to be with that special one gets really confusing when you set your relationship status to complicated....it is just like a match of tug of war where the cloth hangs in the middle....it is really tough to make up the mind at times because love really stays on and lust drops off but at times both remain and the brain gets hung on in the middle....
Nothing is really easy and well that is life, it isn't supposed to be easy....no matter what it is, whether lust or love, you only know that there is someone special in your mind and with time things would most probably clear up...if they don't, do not worry, choose whatever you think is the best for your situation...if loving that someone would solve your problems, then love else just drool over them and forget everything and keep on smiling throughout the tough times in life....
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My 17th Post: Love

Was definitely out of topics, as people refer to it, a writer's block...but I had one only for the topics....so this was suggested by my friend and I thought why not, I mean it is one of the strongest topics ever....there is a lot to talk upon this, so just wanted to express Love in my format...
People always talk about love, but rarely seem to know it....there are unlucky ones who know what it is but never owned it....for me, love is a pure feeling from the heart...though the brain takes all the actions and decisions, I still believe, that is philosophically, like most that love comes from the depth of one's heart....
There are many types of this passion....love can be for one's nation, it can be in the care of a mother, the love for a man for his spouse or even the love for a kid for his bar of chocolate...the only difference is that some stay for long and others just vanish with the winds....love can't be owned, it is earned....you can't say I love someone and they should love you back...that ain't possible....if a mother loves her child, it ain't necessary that the child loves her the same way she does....it just depends upon the child's selection....maybe he loves his dad just cause the nature of his mom, no matter how much she loves him, is strict and his dad is soft.....that doesn't mean the mother should stop loving her son....she should continue no matter what cause that is the true ambition of love...
Love doesn't means to get something in return, it mainly is the devotion of oneself to other....no matter what the consequences are, love should never end...if doesn't ends, then it is the true feeling....even when someone gets angry upon someone who is close to him/her, it is just cause that someone was special and when someone is special, it always leads to one conclusion that love consides in the heart.....
The blessing of love, has no match and that is acknowledged not after loving a child or anything materialistic, it is achieved by loving the Creator of all....the one Who has the power to destroy everything within a glimpse of a second....loving Him more than anyone on this planet, is the true kind of love and that won't ever take us to a downfall or ever hurt us...
Tc all, do comment and keep on experiencing the sensation of love....

My 16th Post: A wish

Sitting on a roof top, glazing up at the calm sky...just waiting for a perfect moment to see a falling star....as the star shoots out of the sky, the little girl, who had a teddy clutched in her arm, rose up on her feet and wished for an angel to fulfill her dreams.....
That rarely happens in real life....yes, the innocence of a child can make this happen but for a grown up, things change with time....we stop believing in a situation like this....the maturity kills it all....but what remains is the word 'wish'....no matter how old we get or how mature we are, we always have a wish....sometimes they are fulfilled and at times, we end our time and our wish remains dug up under the sand like us....
A wish, a desire always have a special standing in one's life.....it is like life is incomplete when we don't have a wish....one ends, and there is another waiting to take place....but still there is a wish which conquers them all....you can name it the queen wish.....even if we achieve that, no other wish takes its place.....
We spend our entire life to fulfill our wishes or someone's wishes who is special for us but we never realize that the bag of wishes gets filled up even more when one of the wish comes true....human being is a greedy material....we always want more and each time we get more, we want more....so the cycle never ends, we just keep on wishing and then keep on running after the aim of grabbing that wish.....like eating an ice-cream, that is a wish come true but afterwards we wish to have a cola....so it never ends...
Problem with some wishes is that they come with an expiry date....you don't really have enough time to grab them.....those wishes, if not having the time issue, have a chance issue....you only get certain amount of tries to get it and if you lose, you lose for ever....those golden wishes are heartbreaking and trust me, when you lose a try, the life trembles as if someone got the grab of it and squished with their hands.....but if you finally achieve that wish, it is just like a ride to heaven on this world which is just amazing enough to die for....
There are wishes which can't come true, I mean logically they are impossible but our Lord can create miracles....so in normal conditions, those wishes are like comparing a drop of water with an open ocean....but still the heart wishes, even though it knows and is advised by the brain that don't be an idiot, it goes on giving a try with a believe that maybe the person is special for God......
We all are special for Him and He would definitely listen to each and everyone of us...it is just that maybe that wish is not that perfect for us...so let Him decide what to give and what not to, lets just keep on wishing and keep on living a part of our life in the fairy land....
Tc and do comment :)