My 104th Post: Relations

Every one of us might have studied enough chemistry to know what is bonding....well it is a long process so am not going to define it but just going to say that its main purpose is to join two or more than two atoms together....that same process, just with different rules and regulations, is applied between living things and is termed as relation....as bonding can be of different types, relations are also of various versions.....there are professional relations and personal relations so here I am going to just focus my writing upon the personal relations....
Personal relations require the connection of hearts.....when hearts combine or bond spiritually, a relationship is said to take place.....the problem occurs that it is easy to bond but difficult to maintain the connection....there are a lot of reasons due to which people separate and the most important one is the ignoring nature of human beings....they tend to ignore each and everything once they feel that they possess its authority....our mind drifts us towards the vision that what we own, would always be ours...no matter what happens, that something would pledge its alliance again and again....
When you have everything, you just become reckless and treating that something as a piece of trash after time....though some do take care of their possessions but sadly those are the ones who mostly get played with....there are a lot of things which go off track while in a relation....a person is just a human being walking on two legs and is supposed to fall while covering different paths....he is supposed to make mistakes because he ain't perfect but what one should do is to learn from the previous mistakes....if someone aces that then he/she will always continue the relation made but if fails, unfortunately would lose that someone....
It is really amusing when someone blames the other for not maintaining the relation properly when that first one didn't even care about you until the day you ended.....don't lie...sure one can have secrets but that doesn't means you lie....there are other ways as well...ignore the topic or be straightforward....maybe things would drift apart for a while but still you guys would be together....
Honestly, I don't know what I was going to state in this post but now it is just a gibberish post because of what's on my mind.....well I guess this is a part of my personal experience at the moment and in the end I would just like to say that if one can't be the right hand of a relation, then don't even dare to blame the other person.....you won't only kill the relation but upon that you are just going to destroy your image as well.....

My 63rd Post: Choosing Between L's, Love or Lust

Its nothing new...happens a lot of times and each time there is rarely a true answer to it...when we meet someone or think about someone continuously just like a stalker, we start wondering and naming the feeling which we have grown...it can be either love or lust, one way or another, the person remains in your thoughts...
Love, that is a true feeling, a desire of having someone around you and spending as much time with that person as possible....never ending care for that someone develops in the heart and it seems as if thinking about that someone is more important rather than to sleep and give the body some rest...lust on the other hand, is similar to what I have described love but with a slight difference....with all the sensitive feelings, there is a feeling of being with that someone but hooking up in a physical act....so I would say that lust is the attraction of hormones whereas love is the bond due to the heart....or lust is pleasure and love is the feeling after pleasure, something like that....
It is really confusing while choosing between love and lust.....like for instance people refer to love at first sight...that is just attraction and when someone is attracted it simply means that they want more than just spending time looking into the eyes of that person....but still people say that is possible so for me I would say that it ain't love at first sight, instead it is somewhere in between love and lust.....what if someone knows someone well and wants to get into a relation...what would that be? love? can't it be lust? when someone loves someone, he/she would really want to be with that someone and at occasions would wanna hug or do something like that....those feelings arrive because they are physically attracted towards that person as well and with time, the desire increases....so what happened, did love turn into lust or was it lust all along or it was pure love....really confusing.....
Dreaming about someone and wishing to be with that special one gets really confusing when you set your relationship status to complicated....it is just like a match of tug of war where the cloth hangs in the middle....it is really tough to make up the mind at times because love really stays on and lust drops off but at times both remain and the brain gets hung on in the middle....
Nothing is really easy and well that is life, it isn't supposed to be easy....no matter what it is, whether lust or love, you only know that there is someone special in your mind and with time things would most probably clear up...if they don't, do not worry, choose whatever you think is the best for your situation...if loving that someone would solve your problems, then love else just drool over them and forget everything and keep on smiling throughout the tough times in life....
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