My 119th Post: My Lady

When a guy grows up, a girl walks into his life without any invitation at times and remains not as a tenant but as the owner of his heart....he lets her be around him all the time and without her, he thinks he is simply incomplete and feels weak to face this world....that someone changes him and brings out someone whom the world had rarely seen....the perfect girl, though she might not be perfect for others but she is the jewel for that guy, the jewel which no one can value except him....
My lady, this seems a beautiful achievement in one's life and it is precious but the thing is that a jewel remains valuable until it gets praised by the world....this is the part where a guy falls behind and with time his lady feels that she is nothing but a trophy won and has earned a place upon his shelf....a lady ain't a trophy to place upon a shelf, she is to be cherished through out....
There are many girls who complain to their husbands that they don't have time for them or they don't care about them or stuff like they loved them before they were married and the love drowned after signing a piece of paper....mostly, they are wrong.....I am not defending those husbands because I believe that it is entirely their fault....a girl who left her house and her family to start a new one with a guy who once was a stranger, would want attention from him....she would want his time and his compliments.....loving someone and flirting etc is easier before marriage but continuing it afterwards is the main task in hand....guys mostly fall back in this situation...they have a thought in their minds that now that they have got the girl of their dreams, they need to concentrate upon their future so that his family may stand up strong....he isn't thinking wrong but the fault is in his balance.....when a husband comes home, his wife expects him to look at her and compliment over her dress maybe but mostly guys just change clothes and hit the sofa because they need a break and want to relax...
Ladies aren't tough to handle...little things are important for them...they make them happy and when their guy appreciates the effort, it is like a big achievement for them....instead of getting home from work and hitting shower, a guy can give his girl a hug and compliment upon maybe her dress or her hair or the flour upon her cheek....anything, it just shows that he notices and a girl wants nothing else just the thing that whom she exhausts herself for, notices her or not.....this is an era of mobiles and each and mostly everyone has one....when you were her boyfriend or fiance, there isn't any moment when you didn't message her and asked her what she was doing....after marrying, same can be done....it takes way too little effort....just show her that she is there in your mind....though she is there all the time but you need to show her that....just a simple way, tell her that you love her from time to time, that would fill her heart with butterflies...
I know I have compared a lady with materialistic things but my motive was positive...a lady is the most precious thing a guy can ask in his life time....she is the one who diverts him towards becoming a gentleman rather than turning into a beast....take care of her and make her view her as the centre piece of your life...if you achieve that, you would achieve a trailer of heaven upon this planet....
Even if you haven't met your lady yet, share this post with the ones who have that is if you like it and all :)

My 114th Post: Society Blamed For Image

People believe that we are the image of our environment....what we grow up to be, depends upon our surrounding and the type of people we had since our birth....a child if born in a house of a thief would in the end become a thief in his latter life, same goes for a child born in the house of a priest...instead of becoming a thief, the priest's child will be a model of his/her religion....so the future of a person depends upon what he/she is provided....the fact that a person's will and understanding won't make a change....whatever a child molds into is fully dependent upon his background.....
I do not agree with the point I laid in the first paragraph....if this was the case then till today, only a single type of human character would had been found....but no, there are differences in people....there are good and there are the ones who lack good in them....it ain't necessary that a priest may give birth to a priest and a thief would bring up a thief in his house....it depends upon the child and the intensity of its blindness....it is just like the case when a child learns to cry just to get what it wants...so if that child really wants to get something, to change into a better human being, it would dig up a way no matter what....but if that same child is happy with the way the things are going, there won't be any change in him/her....it would lead a simple life and follow the path his parents, or someone he adored, led.....

When we are born, we are given some characteristics which help us to learn and to survive in a better manner in this life....though someone might be uneducated, that someone would still be aware of the difference between injustice and justice....the simple way to know that is to imagine a case making oneself the victim of the impact caused by the decision taken....if one thinks that things weren't fair and there was injustice involved then that same would be the thought of someone else....so it is really simple to judge between two statements and choose a better one....for example, if someone has a task to kill someone, the killer might think it is a good idea because he/she is going to be paid for that but if that killer steps in the foot of the victim, then I don't think his/her selection might be the same...everyone loves their life, to kill might be a profitable business but to die only leads towards bankruptcy and would encounter a loss of life....
A person has the options in front of him and it is upon him to decide what he wants to go with....it is only he who maps his life....society does play an important role in one's life but if someone wills to do good, no one would be able to stop him....but if someone really wants to shower in the dirt of his inherited society, then no one in this world can stop him....what ever he is given, he would end up becoming a part of that dirt....
Try evaluating things and at times, do listen to your heart while making some decisions.....it might hurt you but a honest heart won't guide towards the path of evil....

My 33rd Post: Friends

There is a huge list of options in the category of relations....each and everyone is important and in life there comes a time when a person is incomplete without one....if its a guy, he may become a father to some, a brother to another and an uncle to someone else....but there are limits for him....as his gender justifies, he can't be someone's wife or someone's niece.....same in the case of a women...she can't be someone's grandfather or someone's father in law....that just means that the relations are choosy and they don't allow each and everyone to tag them in....
But there is one which doesn't cares about the cast, creed or the gender....neither it cares about one being alive or not....it tags along with anyone or anything just with one condition, trust....and that is all, just fill out the form of trust and there you have it, a relation package of friendship....
Friends are those special people who are sent down to Earth in order to fill in each and every place where someone needs a hand to hold on to.....the relationship of a true friendship is stronger than many bonds even at times, it cracks the limits of love....it may be in between a dog and his master or a guy and his car...it can stick into any two things....
You share your tiniest secrets with them...they are the only ones who know how crazy you can get at times....with them the world becomes small enough to swallow in a single bite...I mean its just amazing how the thing with a friend goes....even without saying a word, just with the expression of a blink of an eye, urban legends can be revealed....not really but it means that words aren't always required to continue a conversation.....
If someone sees you with a friend and are aware of nothing, things just seem as an episode of Charlie Chaplin....your buddy (specially a best friend) keeps on using some special words to describe a whole scene of an hour and only thing you reply is a high fi and then some phony expressions....to the viewer its just like entering a math's lecture at its end....
Friends are the most precious jewels of life....they should never be left to corrode, instead should be varnished every once in a while....the magic of friendship never ends until someone just moves on forgetting whom he met before the position he is in.....friends fight for each other, support each other and are there always to hold your back even there are ones who get scolded just cause they took the blame for his friend....
Thank you all my friends for being there for me and surviving through my every lame joke with a laugh.....thank you for simply being my friend and making my life's each day a happy ending and giving me the will to rise to a new morning....remain my friends forever....
Dedicated to all of my friends and to those who are a friend to someone....
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