My 119th Post: My Lady

When a guy grows up, a girl walks into his life without any invitation at times and remains not as a tenant but as the owner of his heart....he lets her be around him all the time and without her, he thinks he is simply incomplete and feels weak to face this world....that someone changes him and brings out someone whom the world had rarely seen....the perfect girl, though she might not be perfect for others but she is the jewel for that guy, the jewel which no one can value except him....
My lady, this seems a beautiful achievement in one's life and it is precious but the thing is that a jewel remains valuable until it gets praised by the world....this is the part where a guy falls behind and with time his lady feels that she is nothing but a trophy won and has earned a place upon his shelf....a lady ain't a trophy to place upon a shelf, she is to be cherished through out....
There are many girls who complain to their husbands that they don't have time for them or they don't care about them or stuff like they loved them before they were married and the love drowned after signing a piece of paper....mostly, they are wrong.....I am not defending those husbands because I believe that it is entirely their fault....a girl who left her house and her family to start a new one with a guy who once was a stranger, would want attention from him....she would want his time and his compliments.....loving someone and flirting etc is easier before marriage but continuing it afterwards is the main task in hand....guys mostly fall back in this situation...they have a thought in their minds that now that they have got the girl of their dreams, they need to concentrate upon their future so that his family may stand up strong....he isn't thinking wrong but the fault is in his balance.....when a husband comes home, his wife expects him to look at her and compliment over her dress maybe but mostly guys just change clothes and hit the sofa because they need a break and want to relax...
Ladies aren't tough to handle...little things are important for them...they make them happy and when their guy appreciates the effort, it is like a big achievement for them....instead of getting home from work and hitting shower, a guy can give his girl a hug and compliment upon maybe her dress or her hair or the flour upon her cheek....anything, it just shows that he notices and a girl wants nothing else just the thing that whom she exhausts herself for, notices her or not.....this is an era of mobiles and each and mostly everyone has one....when you were her boyfriend or fiance, there isn't any moment when you didn't message her and asked her what she was doing....after marrying, same can be done....it takes way too little effort....just show her that she is there in your mind....though she is there all the time but you need to show her that....just a simple way, tell her that you love her from time to time, that would fill her heart with butterflies...
I know I have compared a lady with materialistic things but my motive was positive...a lady is the most precious thing a guy can ask in his life time....she is the one who diverts him towards becoming a gentleman rather than turning into a beast....take care of her and make her view her as the centre piece of your life...if you achieve that, you would achieve a trailer of heaven upon this planet....
Even if you haven't met your lady yet, share this post with the ones who have that is if you like it and all :)

My 75th Post: Rupunzel

When I was a child, someone read me the story of Rupenzel trapped in a tower who had really long hair...my post isn't even close to that one...she has nothing to do with my writing at the moment....from years, Disney has been making stories about princesses that how they were trapped in their gloomy life and one day a handsome prince arrives and turns things to a happy ending....among all those beautiful fictional characters, there is one whom I find the most charming...

From the movie, Tangled, a princess arrives in my imagination named Rupenzel....though many of you might have seen her but for those who haven't, a girl with wide eyes with green iris, with childish and sweet image in them....I mean, she is perfect....

The image is cute and I ain't denying that but am not really talking about that...there are many in this real world who would have eyes like her or hair like her or her body but the nature of that girl which they have shown is what mesmerized me....that is what makes her different from all the other Disney princesses....they have always shown a princess tough and wants to break through every boundary but none of them has the childishness in them like her...Ariel from the Little Mermaid was a bit childish but still somehow she sounded mature to me through out the cartoon....but this one was really a child in both believes and nature...that is what attracted me towards this character....
Maybe that is what I would want in my future someone to be like....though cute from outside but a child from inside....someone who might just be really innocent and that could be seen through her eyes....someone whom I would see and forget my anger....a caring someone who knows when she have done wrong and admits her guilt....a really great talker and caring person with a smile upon her face in the hardest of the times...someone like her would really be tough to find but still when I find her, would I be good enough to deserve her? that is another tale....so I guess I have to work upon myself so that when the day I find her arrives, I would be her Mr. Perfect....till then, I would continue with my crush upon this fictional character...
P.s to top up this marriage, a daughter like Agnes from Despicable Me would be perfect :)
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My 67th Post: Thoughts Before Sleep

My last post was updated 18 days before this one....somehow, I didn't wanted to write anything here....did have wonderful topics to talk about but whenever I sat down in front of my p.c, I just ended up shutting it down and walking away....there is a list of headings piled up in the draft section but there ain't any intention up my head of covering those up....I just don't know why, but I don't feel like writing these days....
Every time, I lay down on my bed in a will to sleep, I just end up thinking about various things....just like the thought I have placed in my above para.....it is like my brain gets reactivated and starts working upon the possibilities of some work in some random situation....at times it messes up stuff and at others, it makes up situations which are hardly believable....for example, one night while I tried to sleep, I drifted away to a place in my thoughts where I had some super powers, some abilities which no one would ever have....I did various things and brought peace in this world....well that was an old tale and now it puts me into more realistic events which coil up a set of confusions and I have to forcefully shut it down.....
I don't know why but I have these night dreams when I am still awake...I guess many of you might have them and in some way, they do help in getting a proper sleep....it somehow feels that in the end of the day, I have achieved something to think about...that really relaxes my mind...when I have something to think about, I just feel that I have a motive in this life and at times thinking before going to bed, gives clear solutions....at night, the mind is relaxed...there is nothing to be worried about except the fact that we need to sleep early so that we may wake up early...except that, there ain't any traffic block in the head....the mood is calm and the environment is peaceful....thinking about something at that hour might be a solution to many tangled situations....it is quite easy to overlook a factor while we have others things upon our mind....but when we are going to sleep, nothing else is there...so giving a matter a look at that moment, might turn out to be the best and the most easiest way...am not suggesting to do when someone is drowsy or something but at a time when we just intend to relax and go to sleep....
In my experience, thinking over something before a perfect sleep, helps a lot....there are times when I am still confused over the path to choose and when that happens, I just go to sleep....I dream about each and every detail of that matter and mostly end up getting the answers....in my suggestion it is just because when I sleep, I am able to concentrate much more easier and my brain starts digging up deep to find a solution....so this is nothing unique  because each and everyone of you can do that...that is if you want to...
So follow my advice and get ready for bed whenever you can't decide between some answers...just don't fall asleep while giving some exam because you would only recieve the answer which you don't want to circle, trust me on that one...
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