My 119th Post: My Lady

When a guy grows up, a girl walks into his life without any invitation at times and remains not as a tenant but as the owner of his heart....he lets her be around him all the time and without her, he thinks he is simply incomplete and feels weak to face this world....that someone changes him and brings out someone whom the world had rarely seen....the perfect girl, though she might not be perfect for others but she is the jewel for that guy, the jewel which no one can value except him....
My lady, this seems a beautiful achievement in one's life and it is precious but the thing is that a jewel remains valuable until it gets praised by the world....this is the part where a guy falls behind and with time his lady feels that she is nothing but a trophy won and has earned a place upon his shelf....a lady ain't a trophy to place upon a shelf, she is to be cherished through out....
There are many girls who complain to their husbands that they don't have time for them or they don't care about them or stuff like they loved them before they were married and the love drowned after signing a piece of paper....mostly, they are wrong.....I am not defending those husbands because I believe that it is entirely their fault....a girl who left her house and her family to start a new one with a guy who once was a stranger, would want attention from him....she would want his time and his compliments.....loving someone and flirting etc is easier before marriage but continuing it afterwards is the main task in hand....guys mostly fall back in this situation...they have a thought in their minds that now that they have got the girl of their dreams, they need to concentrate upon their future so that his family may stand up strong....he isn't thinking wrong but the fault is in his balance.....when a husband comes home, his wife expects him to look at her and compliment over her dress maybe but mostly guys just change clothes and hit the sofa because they need a break and want to relax...
Ladies aren't tough to handle...little things are important for them...they make them happy and when their guy appreciates the effort, it is like a big achievement for them....instead of getting home from work and hitting shower, a guy can give his girl a hug and compliment upon maybe her dress or her hair or the flour upon her cheek....anything, it just shows that he notices and a girl wants nothing else just the thing that whom she exhausts herself for, notices her or not.....this is an era of mobiles and each and mostly everyone has one....when you were her boyfriend or fiance, there isn't any moment when you didn't message her and asked her what she was doing....after marrying, same can be done....it takes way too little effort....just show her that she is there in your mind....though she is there all the time but you need to show her that....just a simple way, tell her that you love her from time to time, that would fill her heart with butterflies...
I know I have compared a lady with materialistic things but my motive was positive...a lady is the most precious thing a guy can ask in his life time....she is the one who diverts him towards becoming a gentleman rather than turning into a beast....take care of her and make her view her as the centre piece of your life...if you achieve that, you would achieve a trailer of heaven upon this planet....
Even if you haven't met your lady yet, share this post with the ones who have that is if you like it and all :)

My 112th Post: Begging

Earning is a tough thing and people realise it once they are on there feet without any shoulder to rest the head upon....they do hard work through out their life just to earn a decent living...some study and earn good grades and degrees to get a desk job and others might spend their life bagging experience in order to start up a business or do something depending upon their field of interest.....no matter what, both the types try to make a reputation for them and their families in this world and most importantly, they eat from what they rightly earn....

Well everybody has his/her own perspective and there are some who have a way different than mine....there are people who no doubt work hard day and night but the way they earn is not respected in the society because they don't earn what they get....they beg for it and literally they do.....these are the ones who eat out of others' plates and don't even feel ashamed of doing that....they roam around the streets in search of people who might give them money for just asking for it....they stick around and keep circling the ones who might have some cash to throw away and in the end, are the owners of something which was thrown at them....
Begging is getting out of hands specially in countries like Pakistan or India....there is no force which would stop the beggars...so the streets are filled with groups of people waiting in line to make you feel guilty just to give them some cash....the second reason is that people don't realise the fact that if they give something to someone without any return or some hard work, they are just encouraging them to ask again....with time, the person wouldn't hesitate even a bit and that someone would proudly ask for stuff...this is natural...if someone is getting something without any hard work and just has to ask for it, why would he/she will to work in the future....they would just ask...why would someone cook a meal when they are automatically served on time....so there won't be any sense of responsibility in that someone's mind and would take things for granted....
It feels so odd to see someone coming in front of you and raise their hands to ask for money....if that someone is needy, one should help as much as he/she can because they had no other option...but these days, it is really a tough job to distinguish a needy from a professional beggar.....what matters is mainly your intention...so if you help someone out with good will, it is alright...but if you know that someone is a beggar and you have seen that someone continuously, try avoiding him or her....
Try stopping the idea of begging not by eliminating beggars but by changing their thinking....if you know some available job, offer them a job in exchange because they need to earn as well....you can't just kick them out....or motivate them in showing their talents like the ones in U.S or U.K who play guitars or dance in public to entertain just to earn.....
It would be a better society if everyone understands the idea to earn rather than to snatch someone else's treasure...

My 86th Post: Elections 2013

After a long journey of, some say torments and destruction and others saying a wonderful half decade of prosperity, the time is back to take a stand and change our leaders for a change....am not criticising the government or willing to disrespect the devotees by saying that the current leader and his government brought nothing more than handful of corruption, pushed peace from the bridges of this country or is the vital reason for the rise in the current figures of the poverty graph...saying all this would be rude and is unacceptable so would keep it out of my post...but what I am going to say is that there is always a need of change or in other words, a desire for change....no matter how good things are, still there is space for making them better....
This year of 2013, elections are taking place in Pakistan....people are taking part enthusiastically, specially the youth of Pakistan is willing to step forward and change the minds from following a good for nothing, emotionally blackmailing leader to someone who might, just might make things better and help our country survive not only for our generation but for the upcoming generations.....this Friday was the last day to campaign for any political party and tomorrow the votes would be cast....at this time tomorrow, we might be able to predict our future for the upcoming years....it might be good enough to drive a sixer off the field or maybe would get shot down by a hunter's arrow or even that hunter might be killed by it's own prey.....anything can happen, we can only pray....but the assurance is that the minds are changing and people are starting to realise the truth and throw down the veils off their eyes.....so what if this year nothing changes for good, though Allah forbids that, but still there is a change rising and if the country isn't changed, this year gives hope that it would certainly change in the upcoming years.....
Everyone has a right to select and vote for who ever they want but it's kind of an appeal to all of them to judge before casting a vote....a vote is a huge responsibility bestowed upon our shoulders and this shouldn't be played with.....a vote shouldn't be casted because one wanted it instead it should be on the basis of sensibility....ofcourse if you are a member of a particular party suppose 'abc', you would support it no matter how wrong it is but should you? that is a question out of prefix here....the thing is, is it good to be selfish just just for your own sake? there is a country which suffers when a vote is casted to the wrong side.....sure, a particular group of people may cash in from that but let me tell them that by doing that, they are making things worst....one year they worked lets say to level 1 to complete their illegal task, the next year they would have to climb up to level 2 to complete that same old task....it is better to develop the country once and to eat the fruits from then on.....but still it is their choice, what can one do if the opportunist wants to suicide even when there is an opening towards happiness....
Since the last elections, I have heard people whining and cursing the government....to be honest, though these are my views only, the government isn't soul responsible....who said to cast votes in a manner that you would regret....out of context, if you give a pistol to a hooligan, what would you expect, him/her protecting you with it or pointing it towards you to take advantage? there are a lot of chances that the pistol would still be in his/her hand and you might be on the floor bleeding and pleading for mercy....miracles don't happen much but wait, they do happen as right now we are having another season of elections with some outstanding candidates amongst whom one is even quoted as the next Jinnah of Pakistan....so it is a miracle and for it to happen, we need to show that we earned it and it is simple just to cast vote and look forward to the new Jinnah or maybe better....
Yes, there are illiterates in this country who are just blown away by emotions and sentiments clenched by the speeches of the political rallies and may vote as an opposing party to the development of this country but to be honest, what are the literates even doing? still there are a lot who are blinded and disregard the fact that this country is alive only by a string which might break real soon if not sewn real soon....and to sew this country, leaders aren't to be chosen by emotions, they are to be chosen by their virtues and their actions in the past which depict their actions in the future....but still what can one say if they really can't see the dream seen by the one who they love and WE love and was martyred for the future of Pakistan in the cold winds of 2007....
May her soul get a place in heaven and may Pakistan prosper and the future of it brightens with the results of this election.....

My 21st Post: Busy

Give the word another look...doesn't it seems as if a bee was moving by your ear when you say 'busy'....the bees are one busy creatures and I guess that is the reason of calling a person who is tangled in his/her work busy...I don't know, just said it...
Days are getting busy...as much we grow, we get involved in various activities and there is so much to do but still I always had a a believe that no one, I mean no one in this world can be busy 24/7....that is just impossible...someone saying that they couldn't get back to you cause they were busy does seems alright unless that someone is replying after a month or so....now there is some error there...if you are a part of someone's life, then there is no option of being busy...who says spend the whole day with that particular person, giving them a minute and showing that you exist is all they require...
I am currently busy in many things...there are studies, house chores, football and much much more but still I manage to sit on my bed and write at least 200 word long post so that you guys can read....I still am able to keep in touch with people through facebook or my mobile....now I don't keep on telling people that I am busy, instead I am there....it just needs a little management of time and stuff....if I can do it then definitely anyone can....giving an excuse of being busy at times is foolish....
There are times when we really get busy and have to concentrate on one work but that doesn't mean we lose a contact for weeks....that in my eyes is just a way to lie....if you don't want to talk to someone, just tell them instead of making up words....you think your truth would hurt them? definitely it would but your lie would kill them....just tell them that you need some space or you are fed up with them, but in a better way that is....telling someone that you don't get time all day just to message once, is just like holding the urge to go to toilet just telling the brain that you are busy, would go in a day or two....we don't see that happening...
Try to give things the priority they deserve...do complete your stuff and instead of hanging up a busy sign, get down to work and complete it all....if you don't do it in time, things may loosen up and maybe if it is a person you are saying that to, would move out one day....instead of losing someone or something, just widen your premises and try to consume your time properly....
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