From the start of life on this planet, men have always treated women to be their inferior species...men has always come up with reasons to brag and humiliate women one way or an other......leaving other discussions behind, I think all this leads to one of the reasons which is jealousy...men somehow is jealous of women....to over come that jealousy, he just decides to invent stuff and try to produce one thing or an other...the reason of jealousy leads to the gift God have given women, the right to give birth....
Men has a share in it but still what the women does is nothing in front of his efforts....nourishing a child for 9 months inside the womb is big but developing a life out of nothing and then letting it out to live, is phenomenal....this is a blessing and a power which He have given women and I guess there is nothing to top that blessing....I have never been a parent but I can still imagine to an extent the feelings of a mother....I can feel the reason for her tears when her child is hurt...not because she only gave birth but mainly because her child was a part of her before it saw the lights in this world.....
Giving birth ain't an easy job....there is a lot to it....God knew that men wouldn't surpass this process because we men don't have the patience required for it.....we don't have the softness required to bring up a child....some men might contradict with my point but as far as I am concerned with my nature, I can say that if men were allowed to give birth and I had to go through this, I would have given up and even people wouldn't have advised me ever to think of baring one because besides physical pain, there is a lot of mental stress, emotional ups and downs and a lot of care is required....just imagine for nine whole months a person has to stay in a place, avoid any exciting activities, eat proper, sleep proper, take medications, e.t.c....it is just like becoming paralyzed and even after that time, taking care of the new born by destroying sleep and the social life....that is just too much to handle but still women take up this job with honor....sure it is their duty because if they don't then who would...but still a women can say no....she can just walk away but no....knowing each and everything, she still prays to be a mother one day...she knows that her breath might start to stink...her weight would increase...she would miss all the parties she wanted to go to....even knows that she might go into a state of depression but still she stands up and takes the job....9 months and no life to enjoy while we, the men, are enjoying each and every second of our life as we always did....I don't think there is any comparison to that....
While writing out this post, I just realized the reason why my mom is always worried about my eating and sleeping habits....I am 20 years old but still my mom calls in daily to check whether I have had something to eat or not....well that sometimes irritates me and she knows that but no matter what my reaction is, she would call again and again until she is satisfied with my answer....now I really know what she meant when she said that I won't understand her feelings because I am not a mother and won't ever be one....so respect and love for all those moms in this world and may they be blessed with the love of their kids till their last breath....
O to mention, the invention part was somthing I heard on t.v....take care of your moms, respect them, love them and cherish their feelings....
Tc, do comment and share.....
Men has a share in it but still what the women does is nothing in front of his efforts....nourishing a child for 9 months inside the womb is big but developing a life out of nothing and then letting it out to live, is phenomenal....this is a blessing and a power which He have given women and I guess there is nothing to top that blessing....I have never been a parent but I can still imagine to an extent the feelings of a mother....I can feel the reason for her tears when her child is hurt...not because she only gave birth but mainly because her child was a part of her before it saw the lights in this world.....
While writing out this post, I just realized the reason why my mom is always worried about my eating and sleeping habits....I am 20 years old but still my mom calls in daily to check whether I have had something to eat or not....well that sometimes irritates me and she knows that but no matter what my reaction is, she would call again and again until she is satisfied with my answer....now I really know what she meant when she said that I won't understand her feelings because I am not a mother and won't ever be one....so respect and love for all those moms in this world and may they be blessed with the love of their kids till their last breath....
O to mention, the invention part was somthing I heard on t.v....take care of your moms, respect them, love them and cherish their feelings....
Tc, do comment and share.....
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