My 115th Post: The Life of A Prostitute

Before reading this post, just understand the fact that this is a general post and there is no shame in writing about this because as a writer, I feel it is my duty to at least try to change things with the strength of my words....

There are different kinds of occupations in this world...people have to give a lot just to earn enough to feed their stomach....some sit behind a desk, some gamble, some rob and still there are ones who sell their bodies just for a while to earn money....those are the ones who really don't feel anything except being proud of themselves when they see someone bathing them in money after a short pleasure....they are willing to sleep with anyone just for the sake of few bucks....it doesn't really matters to them whom they are with until and unless they are paid....

Prostitution is a rapidly growing business in this world....at every corner of a street, there might be someone willing to lure you towards her bed and rob you off your money by fulfilling your desires....statically, as I write this post or while you read it, there are 40 million prostitutes out working and going around different customers....this number is even more than the population of some of the countries....each day, there is a increase in that number and there is no one who is truly willing to stop this....though prostitution is a job worth of Hell, it is a highly profitable business with nominal investment.....

I really don't know how they do it....I mean to lay in bed with different people each day and then to wake up to start the next day....these people really don't have any respect for themselves....not everyone might treat them with care...there would be the ones who might use them as a loaned property and to comfort them, these girls might have to cross limits and abuse themselves willingly.....even if there are rules and regulations which safeguard the girls from being abused, they are still used as the public toilets....no matter what, they have to take the load and sustain it without any complains....they are passed around from a hand to another and still they don't feel grossed out....they have the dignity lower than the trash lying on the streets...

When prostitutes are asked that why do they do such a job which has the lowest standard in the world, their reply is simple that they have no other option available and this is the easiest way to earn and to feed their dying family....though they might be right about options, but still this crosses each and every limit...patience provides ways for a person to survive so a person only needs to believe and to wait....there are other replies as well....some girls say that they were sold in the market and no matter what they do, it ain't possible for them to leave....there are a lot of cases in which the girls were sold out while they were just little girls just for a nominal price....they grew up in the market and ended in bed with strangers...though they resented the idea of that, there wasn't any other option for them.....some girls ran away but in the end they were beaten and brought back....their owners don't get them killed, just beats them up and tortures them more to get them ready for the next time when they have the idea to run....

Our governments are putting a stop to many things but there aren't any proper operations carried upon this....if our governments wanted, prostitution might had ended till now but somehow they really don't care or maybe they have some involvement in this system....yes, there are cases which show from time to time that the government officials are not really willing to end this market but still there isn't any final statement....

The odd thing is that there are girls who are willingly stripping just because they think they have the talent for such a thing....these are the ones who go down without any push or and pressure upon them....they might be filthy rich but still, they want to try out this life....also there are the ones who do exactly the same things but they don't do it directly for money....they have other reasons like grabbing a place in society or getting promoted etc....I really feel like laughing upon their face when such a girl says negative things about a professional prostitute and abuses her....honestly, I feel no difference between them and the ones who are doing for money....no matter what, in the end of the day both types slept with random people; both got something in return and both stood up alone...well if we see it in another way than the one who doesn't do it for money, is kind of treated in a better manner and there is someone in the end of the day to lend his hands to help her put on her clothes....nothing else.....

I really don't know how this would stop but I know for a fact that this shouldn't be something a person would be willing to do....if there are ways out, the victim should jump out of that window....even if there is someone you can save, try to do what you have the might to do and leave rest to Him as He knows better....

My 72nd Post: The Disgust in Love

The post title might be suggesting that I am the type of a guy who would run away from love and the love stories...in other words, I might be completely an unromantic soul but that is not what I meant to implant in the readers' mind...I am a guy who accepts love and supports it as well but here I am stating the love developed by the 21st century generation....Yes, I am a part of that generation and no, I am not some 25 or 30 year old guy who is stepping into maturity now....I just ended my teens a year ago and this new type of love disgusted me then and disgusts me now...
There is this guy who likes this girl....he goes to her and tells her about his feelings...the girl feels the same and they are together....isn't that supposed to be it? I mean, they like each other, are in a relationship and if things go well, they might marry each other....through out that period of time, they greet each other as special friends but still maintain their limits....a simple and decent love story...what else is required here? I don't think there is a need of any type of spices here, it is perfect as it is but no, there are many who would shout out to the world, proving my insanity....
For me, getting in a relationship is just getting an approval and then with time trying to know that someone better so that the future might be perfect or well seen....on the other hand, for many after proposal comes the time of dating and stuff like that....these days, the life after marriage is same as the life during some relation, only the difference is that after marriage, you can become a father in front of the world....I am not saying that everybody has turned out like this but still there are many to be seen....
Getting physical with someone who is only a girlfriend, someone who is legally not a part of your life, is a shameless act....what if you two don't end up together and a day comes when your spouse finds out about your plays and all or what if you are a guy and you find out after marrying a girl that she was once one of your buddy's girlfriend and they were really into each other? Try thinking over this by standing at the end where it might hurt bad, the point where you get to suffer due to someone's guilt....what would happen to your male ego then? It would be thrashed and crushed....
Some of you might just agree to the part that being physical is not a good idea, that gift should be wrapped till the wedding but what about those private chats and dialogues....you love someone, you tell them...what is up with sending kisses and hugs to someone you have no connection with....I don't want to type inappropriate stuff here but some chats are disgusting and are just off limits....alright fine, sending a hug or a peck is kind of a way of showing continued interest and affection but that should be it...no need of digging into details and describing the scene by taking it away from romance to a porno...is that seriously some kind of love I am unaware of? I really don't think so...
Love should be enough pure that you would easily present it in front of your parents....it should not be the type where your father would have to bend his neck for his entire life....have you ever imagined what would happen if your chats are seen by your family? do you really think your parents would be proud of you and specially for girls, do you really think after viewing all that your brother would want to stand there for you? No, no one would....I said specially girls because no matter which society you are from, you are respected once and when there is a mark upon your forehead, it is never erased through out your life....
 Take care people and its my advise to all to love but in a manner that you would be able to maintain your old relations and wouldn't let anyone down specially your family....do comment your views and share it on....

My 63rd Post: Choosing Between L's, Love or Lust

Its nothing new...happens a lot of times and each time there is rarely a true answer to it...when we meet someone or think about someone continuously just like a stalker, we start wondering and naming the feeling which we have grown...it can be either love or lust, one way or another, the person remains in your thoughts...
Love, that is a true feeling, a desire of having someone around you and spending as much time with that person as possible....never ending care for that someone develops in the heart and it seems as if thinking about that someone is more important rather than to sleep and give the body some rest...lust on the other hand, is similar to what I have described love but with a slight difference....with all the sensitive feelings, there is a feeling of being with that someone but hooking up in a physical act....so I would say that lust is the attraction of hormones whereas love is the bond due to the heart....or lust is pleasure and love is the feeling after pleasure, something like that....
It is really confusing while choosing between love and lust.....like for instance people refer to love at first sight...that is just attraction and when someone is attracted it simply means that they want more than just spending time looking into the eyes of that person....but still people say that is possible so for me I would say that it ain't love at first sight, instead it is somewhere in between love and lust.....what if someone knows someone well and wants to get into a relation...what would that be? love? can't it be lust? when someone loves someone, he/she would really want to be with that someone and at occasions would wanna hug or do something like that....those feelings arrive because they are physically attracted towards that person as well and with time, the desire increases....so what happened, did love turn into lust or was it lust all along or it was pure love....really confusing.....
Dreaming about someone and wishing to be with that special one gets really confusing when you set your relationship status to complicated....it is just like a match of tug of war where the cloth hangs in the middle....it is really tough to make up the mind at times because love really stays on and lust drops off but at times both remain and the brain gets hung on in the middle....
Nothing is really easy and well that is life, it isn't supposed to be easy....no matter what it is, whether lust or love, you only know that there is someone special in your mind and with time things would most probably clear up...if they don't, do not worry, choose whatever you think is the best for your situation...if loving that someone would solve your problems, then love else just drool over them and forget everything and keep on smiling throughout the tough times in life....
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