My 115th Post: The Life of A Prostitute

Before reading this post, just understand the fact that this is a general post and there is no shame in writing about this because as a writer, I feel it is my duty to at least try to change things with the strength of my words....

There are different kinds of occupations in this world...people have to give a lot just to earn enough to feed their stomach....some sit behind a desk, some gamble, some rob and still there are ones who sell their bodies just for a while to earn money....those are the ones who really don't feel anything except being proud of themselves when they see someone bathing them in money after a short pleasure....they are willing to sleep with anyone just for the sake of few bucks....it doesn't really matters to them whom they are with until and unless they are paid....

Prostitution is a rapidly growing business in this world....at every corner of a street, there might be someone willing to lure you towards her bed and rob you off your money by fulfilling your desires....statically, as I write this post or while you read it, there are 40 million prostitutes out working and going around different customers....this number is even more than the population of some of the countries....each day, there is a increase in that number and there is no one who is truly willing to stop this....though prostitution is a job worth of Hell, it is a highly profitable business with nominal investment.....

I really don't know how they do it....I mean to lay in bed with different people each day and then to wake up to start the next day....these people really don't have any respect for themselves....not everyone might treat them with care...there would be the ones who might use them as a loaned property and to comfort them, these girls might have to cross limits and abuse themselves willingly.....even if there are rules and regulations which safeguard the girls from being abused, they are still used as the public toilets....no matter what, they have to take the load and sustain it without any complains....they are passed around from a hand to another and still they don't feel grossed out....they have the dignity lower than the trash lying on the streets...

When prostitutes are asked that why do they do such a job which has the lowest standard in the world, their reply is simple that they have no other option available and this is the easiest way to earn and to feed their dying family....though they might be right about options, but still this crosses each and every limit...patience provides ways for a person to survive so a person only needs to believe and to wait....there are other replies as well....some girls say that they were sold in the market and no matter what they do, it ain't possible for them to leave....there are a lot of cases in which the girls were sold out while they were just little girls just for a nominal price....they grew up in the market and ended in bed with strangers...though they resented the idea of that, there wasn't any other option for them.....some girls ran away but in the end they were beaten and brought back....their owners don't get them killed, just beats them up and tortures them more to get them ready for the next time when they have the idea to run....

Our governments are putting a stop to many things but there aren't any proper operations carried upon this....if our governments wanted, prostitution might had ended till now but somehow they really don't care or maybe they have some involvement in this system....yes, there are cases which show from time to time that the government officials are not really willing to end this market but still there isn't any final statement....

The odd thing is that there are girls who are willingly stripping just because they think they have the talent for such a thing....these are the ones who go down without any push or and pressure upon them....they might be filthy rich but still, they want to try out this life....also there are the ones who do exactly the same things but they don't do it directly for money....they have other reasons like grabbing a place in society or getting promoted etc....I really feel like laughing upon their face when such a girl says negative things about a professional prostitute and abuses her....honestly, I feel no difference between them and the ones who are doing for money....no matter what, in the end of the day both types slept with random people; both got something in return and both stood up alone...well if we see it in another way than the one who doesn't do it for money, is kind of treated in a better manner and there is someone in the end of the day to lend his hands to help her put on her clothes....nothing else.....

I really don't know how this would stop but I know for a fact that this shouldn't be something a person would be willing to do....if there are ways out, the victim should jump out of that window....even if there is someone you can save, try to do what you have the might to do and leave rest to Him as He knows better....

My 88th Post: Hijab

There is this thought going around in my head from long....I wasn't able to write on it because I wanted to experience more before I say something over it....I have noticed more and more women joining the circle of jihab and have started wearing abaya (the veil) so that is a good thing, right? but well what I have noticed is that most of them have forgotten the true essence of veiling themselves....today even abaya is worn just for the sense of fashion....most of the ladies these days don't have the real believe of hijab, they just do it because it is in or someone might have forced them to....so to them I would like to say that it isn't a fashion statement...
I guess most of my readers would be firstly questioning upon the right I have to talk about them, so for them I would like to say that I ain't pin pointing anyone, am just writing my thoughts and giving my views here.....after that their thought might be that at least they are veiling themselves so it is alright....well yes, it is good that at least they are trying to amend their dressing but that doesn't means that one is really covering herself from men....I mean hijab doesn't means only to wear a veil.....covering one's body is essential but that should be followed by both style and behaviour too....
What's on my mind is that I have noticed a lot of girls these days who wear abaya to veil themselves but most of them instead of covering their face, just wear a scarf....that covers the hair and it is believed that hair makes a woman more attractive...so wearing only a scarf instead of covering the face is also good but that doesn't means that the girl goes on covering herself with makeup or putting a brooch over her scarf....the motive of a hijab is to become unattractive to the opposite gender....by puffing makeup or wearing extra
jewelry or getting different colour combinations or attractive material for the cloth of a veil just kills the concept of hijab....even though you are wearing an abaya, the concept of covering yourself dies because you are still attractive to men and sure the men should lower their gaze but still, they are men and they would look if someone goes by and is pretty....I agree that there are totally and properly covered ladies and still men stalk them but here is the fault of those men not of those decent ladies....
The other thing which swims in my mind while thinking about girls who hijab is that most of them just wear an abaya, that is they don't really feel what it gives them instead they take it as a duty which a person does without any dedication.....yes, I know I shouldn't be judging those people but the thing is that how can a girl who veils herself in front of everyone, dress outstandingly in some party with perfect matching jewelry n shoes.....if that party is only women, then sure nothing wrong with that...but a girl veiling all the time she goes out and then is all dressed in a co-party feels like she doesn't really care whether to do hijab or not....else that type of a girl would be uncomfortable while revealing herself in front of the public....or another one who is also the veiling type, has no attention over who is present in the room or maybe watching her while she is doing some chores or anything...I mean the one who veils, remains conscious when she is some place where others can look at her....the door is opened and she is without any kinda hijab and the public can easily look at her while she moves on with what she wants to do....that girl if she was really into veiling herself, would be alert all the time....hijab doesn't means only to be unattractive by the body, but also one should use a proper type of tone and style when around people who she veils from....
So to all those who veil, it is really a good thing and many are proud of you but please do it properly and try to believe in hijab rather than just wearing an abaya and before taunting guys and pointing fingers over them, see if you are acting properly or not.....
To all the ladies who read it, please do not get offended by this post...this is just my observation and my thoughts and maybe it isn't for you (the one who is reading), it is for the ones whom I saw acting or behaving like this so just try to vision what I want to say....
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My 62nd Post: And Its Done!!

Work piling up and time seems to run out of hands...it gets on the nerves while looking at that scenario...seems like, nothing would finish and things would get worst by each passing day....the glimpse of hope keeps fading and fading because there is no progress...with each passing sigh, the breath gets heavier but the things remain the same....that is frustrating but the better word is, irritating....
When there is work left and it isn't finishing and then you get to know about more work, it seems as if the mind just explodes and shatters into pieces....everything seems grey and nothing is fun anymore....but still a time comes when you stand up, walk towards that heap of work and end it in a go...that relief is just amazing...nothing can top that feeling....the work is done and the mind signals your body to cool down and relax....everything changes and even the lamest joke brings out a laugh....

I feel that work is one of the blessings a person has in his/her life...people run away from work because they feel that it is exhausting...I feel that it is the work which helps this mind to remain sane...imagine someone in a room for more than a year doing nothing at all, what would he be like when he gets out? I don't think that someone would survive even if he were provided with a t.v and someone to talk to him....work makes his brain work out....gives a sense of motivation and the need of staying alive in this world...well at least that is what my brain says....
Honestly, when I end up doing something, I dig up my mind to get more work to grab because I really like working but my bad habit is that I like to remain independent while I work....I don't like to be reminded again and again if I am told to do something...if I tell a date of finishing it, then just wait for that if the work ain't done till that, keep nagging me but before that, I don't like to be disturbed because that is how I am....everyone has their own different style of working...some like to be reminded and boosted all the time so that they can end up in time and some, just hate working....
But still, no matter what, I like to celebrate once the load is off...it is just kind of a victory and I don't really party or anything but yes, my brain starts up some fireworks and sings all the time...like right now, I didn't think I would be able to end a post today because I was having that writer's block again but somehow my hands typed and my mind kept laying down the words...now my brain is going out to party and get drunk but of course with Pepsi...
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