My 115th Post: The Life of A Prostitute

Before reading this post, just understand the fact that this is a general post and there is no shame in writing about this because as a writer, I feel it is my duty to at least try to change things with the strength of my words....

There are different kinds of occupations in this world...people have to give a lot just to earn enough to feed their stomach....some sit behind a desk, some gamble, some rob and still there are ones who sell their bodies just for a while to earn money....those are the ones who really don't feel anything except being proud of themselves when they see someone bathing them in money after a short pleasure....they are willing to sleep with anyone just for the sake of few bucks....it doesn't really matters to them whom they are with until and unless they are paid....

Prostitution is a rapidly growing business in this world....at every corner of a street, there might be someone willing to lure you towards her bed and rob you off your money by fulfilling your desires....statically, as I write this post or while you read it, there are 40 million prostitutes out working and going around different customers....this number is even more than the population of some of the countries....each day, there is a increase in that number and there is no one who is truly willing to stop this....though prostitution is a job worth of Hell, it is a highly profitable business with nominal investment.....

I really don't know how they do it....I mean to lay in bed with different people each day and then to wake up to start the next day....these people really don't have any respect for themselves....not everyone might treat them with care...there would be the ones who might use them as a loaned property and to comfort them, these girls might have to cross limits and abuse themselves willingly.....even if there are rules and regulations which safeguard the girls from being abused, they are still used as the public toilets....no matter what, they have to take the load and sustain it without any complains....they are passed around from a hand to another and still they don't feel grossed out....they have the dignity lower than the trash lying on the streets...

When prostitutes are asked that why do they do such a job which has the lowest standard in the world, their reply is simple that they have no other option available and this is the easiest way to earn and to feed their dying family....though they might be right about options, but still this crosses each and every limit...patience provides ways for a person to survive so a person only needs to believe and to wait....there are other replies as well....some girls say that they were sold in the market and no matter what they do, it ain't possible for them to leave....there are a lot of cases in which the girls were sold out while they were just little girls just for a nominal price....they grew up in the market and ended in bed with strangers...though they resented the idea of that, there wasn't any other option for them.....some girls ran away but in the end they were beaten and brought back....their owners don't get them killed, just beats them up and tortures them more to get them ready for the next time when they have the idea to run....

Our governments are putting a stop to many things but there aren't any proper operations carried upon this....if our governments wanted, prostitution might had ended till now but somehow they really don't care or maybe they have some involvement in this system....yes, there are cases which show from time to time that the government officials are not really willing to end this market but still there isn't any final statement....

The odd thing is that there are girls who are willingly stripping just because they think they have the talent for such a thing....these are the ones who go down without any push or and pressure upon them....they might be filthy rich but still, they want to try out this life....also there are the ones who do exactly the same things but they don't do it directly for money....they have other reasons like grabbing a place in society or getting promoted etc....I really feel like laughing upon their face when such a girl says negative things about a professional prostitute and abuses her....honestly, I feel no difference between them and the ones who are doing for money....no matter what, in the end of the day both types slept with random people; both got something in return and both stood up alone...well if we see it in another way than the one who doesn't do it for money, is kind of treated in a better manner and there is someone in the end of the day to lend his hands to help her put on her clothes....nothing else.....

I really don't know how this would stop but I know for a fact that this shouldn't be something a person would be willing to do....if there are ways out, the victim should jump out of that window....even if there is someone you can save, try to do what you have the might to do and leave rest to Him as He knows better....

My 99th Post: Illusioned Beauty

Before stepping out the door, they keep staring at the mirror and keep praising their beauty....beauty which is a secret shared by them and their beloved mirror....like the witch in Snow White, if girls these days ever asked their mirrors the question saying "mirror, mirror on the wall, who is the prettiest of us all", first there would be a choice question in front of them...the mirror would definitely want to ask them whether they are talking about the natural beauty or about the plastic which they wear to shine in public....
Most of you might have guessed what I am talking about but let me clarify for the ones who ain't following me....I am talking about makeup used by girls these days....there was a time when there was makeup found upon a lady's face but these days, there is a face hidden behind makeup....the worst thing is that girls have really learnt how to paint their face....their art is so good that one can not decide whether a girl is beautiful or

not without perfectly washing her face....
Well it may seem that I over exagerated while defining the use of makeup but trust me, it is true....look at girls in your work environment...I ain't asking one to be a pervert but just observe the fact that when they are there in normal days, they are just girls or maybe one or two are too beautiful but still most are just normal girls but when those same arrive in a party, you won't even recognise any....they would just be like girls from a different city whom you would have never met before...proper makeup makes them just like angels fallen from the sky where as, they are just girls....
Makeup can make a piece of coal look like a diamond and that theory is used in this case...though the coal may rejoice for a while in the mask of a diamond, it would always remain a piece of coal at the end of the day....instead of going after something which it isn't, the coal should try and be proud of its beauty.....the immense black colour and its silver shine are enough to capture anyone's sight...but yes, it is true that people go after the one which glows more....though diamond is made from coal, people still want a diamond ring instead of a coal ring....
Am not off the target here, I am just trailing towards the thought that why does a girl needs to shower her face just to look beautiful....every time when one asks this, the answer comes that because she wants to look pretty in front of others....to the ones who think in this way, I have something to say....how can someone accept your beauty if you aren't even accepting it yourself? One lives with a doubt in her beauty and expects others to believe that she really is beautiful, can't really happen.....even when others would believe in her beauty, she would still have second thoughts...
There are dark complexioned girls who want to get a fairer colour and yet on the other hand there are fairer girls who try to get tan....beauty is just mumbled jumbled here....no one really believes one to be beautiful until and unless there is some artificial touching....be what you are and stay happy in what you have....don't try to perfect what was already perfected by our Creator....
So well girls, stop deceiving by bathing in makeup...sure at times one needs little touches to cover rough patches or stuff like that, but those should be touches not a complete paint job....act as human beings, not like a dented car which needs a spray or two....

My 88th Post: Hijab

There is this thought going around in my head from long....I wasn't able to write on it because I wanted to experience more before I say something over it....I have noticed more and more women joining the circle of jihab and have started wearing abaya (the veil) so that is a good thing, right? but well what I have noticed is that most of them have forgotten the true essence of veiling themselves....today even abaya is worn just for the sense of fashion....most of the ladies these days don't have the real believe of hijab, they just do it because it is in or someone might have forced them to....so to them I would like to say that it isn't a fashion statement...
I guess most of my readers would be firstly questioning upon the right I have to talk about them, so for them I would like to say that I ain't pin pointing anyone, am just writing my thoughts and giving my views here.....after that their thought might be that at least they are veiling themselves so it is alright....well yes, it is good that at least they are trying to amend their dressing but that doesn't means that one is really covering herself from men....I mean hijab doesn't means only to wear a veil.....covering one's body is essential but that should be followed by both style and behaviour too....
What's on my mind is that I have noticed a lot of girls these days who wear abaya to veil themselves but most of them instead of covering their face, just wear a scarf....that covers the hair and it is believed that hair makes a woman more attractive...so wearing only a scarf instead of covering the face is also good but that doesn't means that the girl goes on covering herself with makeup or putting a brooch over her scarf....the motive of a hijab is to become unattractive to the opposite gender....by puffing makeup or wearing extra
jewelry or getting different colour combinations or attractive material for the cloth of a veil just kills the concept of hijab....even though you are wearing an abaya, the concept of covering yourself dies because you are still attractive to men and sure the men should lower their gaze but still, they are men and they would look if someone goes by and is pretty....I agree that there are totally and properly covered ladies and still men stalk them but here is the fault of those men not of those decent ladies....
The other thing which swims in my mind while thinking about girls who hijab is that most of them just wear an abaya, that is they don't really feel what it gives them instead they take it as a duty which a person does without any dedication.....yes, I know I shouldn't be judging those people but the thing is that how can a girl who veils herself in front of everyone, dress outstandingly in some party with perfect matching jewelry n shoes.....if that party is only women, then sure nothing wrong with that...but a girl veiling all the time she goes out and then is all dressed in a co-party feels like she doesn't really care whether to do hijab or not....else that type of a girl would be uncomfortable while revealing herself in front of the public....or another one who is also the veiling type, has no attention over who is present in the room or maybe watching her while she is doing some chores or anything...I mean the one who veils, remains conscious when she is some place where others can look at her....the door is opened and she is without any kinda hijab and the public can easily look at her while she moves on with what she wants to do....that girl if she was really into veiling herself, would be alert all the time....hijab doesn't means only to be unattractive by the body, but also one should use a proper type of tone and style when around people who she veils from....
So to all those who veil, it is really a good thing and many are proud of you but please do it properly and try to believe in hijab rather than just wearing an abaya and before taunting guys and pointing fingers over them, see if you are acting properly or not.....
To all the ladies who read it, please do not get offended by this post...this is just my observation and my thoughts and maybe it isn't for you (the one who is reading), it is for the ones whom I saw acting or behaving like this so just try to vision what I want to say....
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My 61st Post: Girls For Sell

There are so many profitable businesses in this world that a hardworking businessman would have a nervous break down if he starts choosing from all of them....a lot is to offer and costumers flush in from each and every corner of the world if the product is well manufactured....these markets should only provide stuff which is hand made or a product of some factory but it is a shame that when markets are dug deep into, they start offering human beings....
Taboo markets around the world deal in girls....they buy and sell them to merchants or other costumers just for the sack of some bills....there are categories set up for the purchase....the types are defined by color, body type, age and attraction....it is just like buying a dress but the only difference is that a dress doesn't have any feelings.....
So many stories have come up and there seems a rise in the polls....the question arises that where do they get these girls...how someone sets up such a market....each girl has a different story to offer....some were kidnapped and others were sold by someone they trusted with their life....it is just miserable to know that the people in this planet can fall that low....what did the girl do? what was her fault that she was punished in such a manner? she was a girl, is that the reason that people think they can do anything to her? I disagree but not only me, everyone who has some respect for humanity would be against this act....people compare those pimps as animals but I would say that they are worst then them because animals even care for their families and respect their female species....
A daughter was sold because her father wanted to shower himself with money...a wife given away because her man only wed her just to climb a ladder to the riches of this world....that is unacceptable and I believed that a woman would understand another's pain but I was wrong...it is not only that a guy is responsible in ruining the life of an innocent girl, but there are women equally involved in this crime....some just give birth because they think that one day her daughter's beauty would attract a rich man and would earn her something one way or another....I did not mention her as a mother because what kind of a mother would want to give up her child for the blessing of some jewels....that woman is a complete disgrace to the pure and respected position of a mother.....
Each day hundreds are bought and sold....the girl doesn't have a choice...she can't die neither can she leave....she has to play the role of what she is told of....if she resists, she would be punished more severely but wouldn't be allowed to die....all she can do is to try and run away but still that isn't easy at all....a girl remains in sorrow through out her life, crying upon her beauty and the fact that she is a girl....even if some lucky girl gets a chance to run off and completes the task, she isn't accepted by her family because rarely someone would believe her part of the story....she would mostly be blamed that she was the one who attracted the guy and then when she had the chance, she ran off and now when she can't handle the torment anymore, so she just returned....our society is really bad....it won't help instead would just bring up more problems...
I really have no idea upon how to stop this at least by myself...all I can do is to raise up a voice and if it touches the hearts of people then insha-Allah among those would be someone strong enough to take some action....for the girls, I would want to say to you is that take care of yourself...try not to cross the boundaries because those who do, they create a trap for the rest of the group....these types of markets are here from centuries but are rising because of the recent changes in the environment...the dressing, the styles and each and everything which would attract a man, increases the costumers there because after looking at one, man gets hungry and he wants someone to end his thirst with.....girls, try to be simple and try to back off from the high life which is going on these days and by high life I don't mean a decent outing...if that is controlled  eventually things would cool off or at least the rate would reduce and sense of security would rise...
Well take care everyone of yourself and the ones you love....do comment and share this post and if you didn't like something about it, do let me know.....

My 41st Post: Chand Raat

A few days back, I wrote off a post upon the act of iftari....what goes on and what we feel during that time interval; wrote every detail and naming it the part of Ramadan....it feels as if that was only a week earlier when I included that post in my blog but no, the whole month passed away tonight....Ramadan of 2012 just ended, this blessed month won't be back for an other year now....who ever did good and fasted the whole month, would certainly receive his/her rewards and who so ever did bad, may Allah bless him/her and forgive all those encountered sins...

Well as the month ends, it is time for Eid....a day celebrated on the closure of the month after the sight of the crescent moon of a new month....in my region, Eid is going to knock on our door steps on 20th of August and today was the day to complete all the preparations for the upcoming parties!!

I have been busy in some chores since 3 days now....had a long list of shopping and some other work but still that wasn't as hectic as today....my arms really hurt right now because today was the final day and had to finish all the remaining things....today was the final fast and was the chand raat (night of the sight of a new moon)....

The day started as any other day of the month....I remained awake till sehri in order to blog and then after sehri was going to sleep but received a text from my buddy that he had arranged a football match...I knew how the day was going to be but still it was football....I just couldn't say no specially on the last day of Ramadan....it felt special....so instead of sleeping went out and played and won as well....the game ended with 4-3....came home, slept late so woke up late and the time was messed up....had to do some shopping and then gave time to the family....after everything, I started to wax my ride and after nearly 4 hours, told myself that now the job is done.....get freshened up and relax....

Well that was the summary of how I spent my day....but normally that was the least busiest schedule anyone would have....you should really check out the markets...they are flushed with people rushing from here and there....the shops seem to be filled with enough people to make them burst apart....I can still imagine a road jam and the drivers continuously honking and looking forward to get a perfect parking spot....housewives at home, would be busy in preparing delicious dishes for people like me to munch on....most of those dishes would be something sweet in order to fill hearts with love and to make a person drip nice words on the day of Eid....girls would be busy in getting their hands tattooed with mehandi....I hate mehandi but still me hating it doesn't makes any difference, just making a statement here.....

Everyone would be running here and there....someone would be shouting because their dress isn't perfectly stitched and on the other hand there would be a person among us all who couldn't get a hair cut and now the barber's shop is over crowded...everyone would be busy tonight in doing stuff....this all seems a fuss but still it is worth it....after a night's fuss, a beautiful day would arrive.....

Now it is my time to sign off because I have to wake up early for the Eid prayer....in all the work, I forgot to confirm the time for the Eid prayer but well got the information...just a few moments earlier, my elder cousin Yaqoob called to inquire about the time and then in the end told me to mention his name here...so here it is bha, you are mentioned in my post :) would see you at the prayer tomorrow insha-Allah and I exactly know what you are going to say so I would like to say sorry in advance :P

Take care everyone, hope you had a wonderful time today and keep yourself updated with my blog....do share and comment.....