My 84th Post: Independent Women

As I was driving, a thought crossed my mind...there was a time once when the roads were filled with man drivers....the roads were our battle fields and we ruled it from ages but now, I see long haired, goggle eyed or creatures in scarves buzzing in from every possible angle or in any manner available at choice....those beautiful and breath drying creatures are the females of the human species....once they were locked off in their house chores, but now they are out trying to step besides the alpha male....
Well, am not going to debate upon who is better amongst both because that topic won't ever come to a conclusion as somehow it is going to lead towards unfair votes.....what I am typing here is that these days, you might find a woman in any designated post which once a male thought he can only master....well not in all but yes, surely in a lot of those positions women not only have stood up straight, but also have performed much better than men....at each step, on either side, where once stood a competitor male now stands a female waiting to step up and conquer the position with pride....
Since the beginning of this world, women weren't given their proper share in the upbringing of this humanity....few amongst many gave respect to women but many degraded them and mocked upon their existence forgetting the fact that they once came from the womb of a women.....man surely is stronger than
women because that is how he is made but his power blocks his senses and he forgets that his power exists just because there was a mother who held him in for 9 months and then brought him up.....the savage nature of man, tortured women and then came a time of uprising by women....they stood up and walked behind men and now they are walking strong besides men....
From the right to vote, they themselves are standing as nominees.....time have changed and they, the women,  are changing with each passing day....today's woman, doesn't relay upon anyone...she alone can carry herself to the edge of success....she has the might, the will and the determination to stand on a cliff and shout out her name with pride....man is merely weak these days, its not the woman who requires support, but it is the man who needs a hand of a woman.....
Well, being independent and standing for their rights is good but most get carried away....a lot of those women do the same blunder which once man did....he never respected the position of women and now, women are doing the same...in their pride and ego, they at times forget that the other species living as a human also needs respect....women just flaunt off in their heads that they are the best and nothing can be compared to what they have....am sorry to all who feel that way....man built this world with woman beside him, so both are required when we talk about the prosperity of humanity....so live independent but always remember that the balance lies with the hard work of both men and women....

My 80th Post: Heros

What's that in the sky? Is that a bird? No, that is a plane...no, that is a dog on fire....people!! for God's sake, that is Superman!!! so for most of us, that was the childhood fantasy....a guy with a cape or a guy running with the speed of light, some turtles from outer space or a guy with his underpants worn upon his pants who would rush up to the crime scene and save the day....well that was only in cartoons or comics but not in real life....we were so much involved in those stories that we started acting like our favorite superhero and pretended to fly from one place to another simply by jumping off a couch to another....
With time, as the minds grew more mature, things started becoming more realistic and the dream of meeting superman or batman vanished into thin air....though the imagination remained but it became something more complicated....the superheros wearing capes and masks became the ones who held guns and defeated the entire armies single handed or the ones, like Jackie Chan, who could beat the sweat outta bad guys without any weaponary just by fighting bare handed......things like that became more facinating but that was only till the extent of entertainment....
Who are heros? That is one real question floating in my mind right now....are they really the ones whom we see on tv or do they really possess special abilities just like Chulbul Pandey? No, not really...they are just like us only baring a difference in their attitude and their dedication....the people in our armies or any other forces are heros and the ones who go to an extreme to save their country or someone are superheros.....I guess that just narrows the term because in my view, not only a person who fights with power is a hero and can upgrade to a superhero but I think anyone who fights for the right purpose even with the help of his/her words may be designated as a hero....
Imagine someone taking a stand over something which isn't really helpful for him/her but still that someone wills to provide a means of justice...that someone might turn out to be a hero and may be defined as a superhero by the work he/she did....so if I really define what a hero is then I would say someone, no matter how old or whatever gender he/she belongs to, who is willing to go to any extent just to make a wrong into right....for that it isn't required to literally save someone's life, but it can be anything which brings out a smile upon an innocent's face and is cherished with what he/she was trying to conquer but couldn't....you can be a hero for a child by saving his/her cat or a hero for old by helping them cross the street or by simply passing a heartful smile...
Anyone can be a hero, it just requires a positive intension and a loving heart....try doing something for others....believe me, that feeling which you get when you are praised by their smiles, is out of this world...try changing things and stop searching for heros or superheros here and there...instead search for that someone in your own soul....that would be a mighty step towards the betterment of our world and our society....
Tc, and if you liked my words, do comment and share.....

My 61st Post: Girls For Sell

There are so many profitable businesses in this world that a hardworking businessman would have a nervous break down if he starts choosing from all of them....a lot is to offer and costumers flush in from each and every corner of the world if the product is well manufactured....these markets should only provide stuff which is hand made or a product of some factory but it is a shame that when markets are dug deep into, they start offering human beings....
Taboo markets around the world deal in girls....they buy and sell them to merchants or other costumers just for the sack of some bills....there are categories set up for the purchase....the types are defined by color, body type, age and attraction....it is just like buying a dress but the only difference is that a dress doesn't have any feelings.....
So many stories have come up and there seems a rise in the polls....the question arises that where do they get these girls...how someone sets up such a market....each girl has a different story to offer....some were kidnapped and others were sold by someone they trusted with their life....it is just miserable to know that the people in this planet can fall that low....what did the girl do? what was her fault that she was punished in such a manner? she was a girl, is that the reason that people think they can do anything to her? I disagree but not only me, everyone who has some respect for humanity would be against this act....people compare those pimps as animals but I would say that they are worst then them because animals even care for their families and respect their female species....
A daughter was sold because her father wanted to shower himself with money...a wife given away because her man only wed her just to climb a ladder to the riches of this world....that is unacceptable and I believed that a woman would understand another's pain but I was wrong...it is not only that a guy is responsible in ruining the life of an innocent girl, but there are women equally involved in this crime....some just give birth because they think that one day her daughter's beauty would attract a rich man and would earn her something one way or another....I did not mention her as a mother because what kind of a mother would want to give up her child for the blessing of some jewels....that woman is a complete disgrace to the pure and respected position of a mother.....
Each day hundreds are bought and sold....the girl doesn't have a choice...she can't die neither can she leave....she has to play the role of what she is told of....if she resists, she would be punished more severely but wouldn't be allowed to die....all she can do is to try and run away but still that isn't easy at all....a girl remains in sorrow through out her life, crying upon her beauty and the fact that she is a girl....even if some lucky girl gets a chance to run off and completes the task, she isn't accepted by her family because rarely someone would believe her part of the story....she would mostly be blamed that she was the one who attracted the guy and then when she had the chance, she ran off and now when she can't handle the torment anymore, so she just returned....our society is really bad....it won't help instead would just bring up more problems...
I really have no idea upon how to stop this at least by myself...all I can do is to raise up a voice and if it touches the hearts of people then insha-Allah among those would be someone strong enough to take some action....for the girls, I would want to say to you is that take care of yourself...try not to cross the boundaries because those who do, they create a trap for the rest of the group....these types of markets are here from centuries but are rising because of the recent changes in the environment...the dressing, the styles and each and everything which would attract a man, increases the costumers there because after looking at one, man gets hungry and he wants someone to end his thirst with.....girls, try to be simple and try to back off from the high life which is going on these days and by high life I don't mean a decent outing...if that is controlled  eventually things would cool off or at least the rate would reduce and sense of security would rise...
Well take care everyone of yourself and the ones you love....do comment and share this post and if you didn't like something about it, do let me know.....

My 56th Post: The Rage Continues

The film which was posted few weeks ago, still has its watermarks....it still remains undecided whether to take action upon it in the favor of the Muslims or just to leave it as it is.....
In my point of view, we Muslims haven't protested in the right manner....what some editors or news casters say may be true to some extent because it is correct that a matter can't be solved by literally burning down the cause, it needs to be solved peacefully and that would receive a better support throughout the world...
In these past few days, I have seen Muslims burning down shops and restaurants and in all that action, lives were lost....a peaceful protest would have caught the eye of many and would have won the hearts of those who are just neutral but protests like these have just provoked people against this....why would someone support this cause if they lost something during the protest and weren't even a part of it?
I agree, at times drastic measures are to be taken and this was among those times but before taking that step, a peaceful call could have been made instead of going out on the streets and flagging war...there were groups who really tried to make it as peaceful as possible but thanks to our media, they got no attention and all their hard work sank down the shores....
I can take an example of my country....what ever happened within these few days, got out of control....people went to an extent of burning down police vehicles and even banks...seriously? didn't anyone tell them that this is already a Muslim country and what ever they do would only bring a loss for one of the Muslim nations....I really don't know what they were really thinking but what ever it was, it was wrong...things shouldn't be like this...hurting yourself because someone unknown pushed you in the mud would only harm you, not that pusher....what he did, was fun for him and what you did, was foolishness....
If Muslims really want to show respect for their Prophet (S.A.W) then there is a simple way which would make those people realize that they are something....instead of burning down a place you own, try boycotting what they own....just like the recent boycott of YouTube....a simple step but can tremble many....there are many sites which our governments can block...once the revenue earned is reduced, they would take Muslims more seriously....in such a way, there are many other things if a person sits down to think with a calm mind....
Be realistic people and think before you do something....try to settle scores peacefully and if that don't work, try to work out things with logic just like during a game of chess....
Tc, comment, do share and do consider.....

My 54th Post: Down Goes Youtube

There is still a madness going around....I see people protesting all over the world and the best part is that they aren't only Muslims...people from every religion are against the film created on the bases of the terms that no matter what the religion is, it should be respected...
One of the reasons of the quick spread of the videos is YouTube....it kept the videos available for the viewers even after being requested for taking it down....I really can't understand why youtube feels it as a nice act to keep up the videos....some people would answer to this question by saying that it is earning through it so there isn't any reason for YouTube to turn down to a business offer....I would reply to them that no matter how much it got paid, it lost millions of viewers just for supporting these videos.... YouTube is banned in most of the Muslim countries and even when the ban would be lifted, some of its permenent members would leave the site forever....
The ratio of videos uploaded or the likes, views or comments made by the Muslims is way too high....Muslims aren't a small body, instead they are a lot of people from different places upon this planet....losing these users is a bad deal....we stayed there for YouTube and kept it up for so long and remained loyal to the site, now it is their responsiblity to support us and stand besides us in our cause....
This is a humble request to the owner of YouTube to take down any offensive video no matter which religion it affects....play a better hand in the riots taking place these days....I am not only saying this as a Muslim, am also saying this as a human so for the sake of humanity, take down those videos and try to restore peace back on this planet....
Well if you have already taken them down, then I am really sorry because I don't have an excess to youtube.com these days in my country....and if you haven't, then this notion against YouTube won't end that soon....so kindly help us decide properly in selecting whether to keep the site banned or turn it back on....
Peace to everyone and support the right....
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