My 97th Post: Abruptive Texts

The first thing which we do normally after opening our eyes these days is to check for any texts upon our mobiles....one may not have clean clothes to wear but would definitely have a sms package to consume....everybody these days is trapped into the world of texting and the day when no texts are received or sent, is a day without life....well that is mostly the thinking of many, specially youngsters....every time there would be a cell phone in their hands and they would be busy in texting....we have become so much habitual of texting that now most of us can text without even looking at the screen and there are those who can perform various tasks while texting....

I, myself, am fond of texting and I do text a lot in a day...though there are days when I don't but still I manage to send messages on Facebook or sites like that....so texting is essential whether I have a mobile with me or not.....
Well this post isn't really about people texting....I mean it is but not really about normal texts....there are people who I hate to text and I guess most of you might have the same feeling against those texters....texters who reply you with a single letter text saying 'k' or something like that....ok so, I mean it is fine for one to reply simply okay when one just asks a plain question or something which really can be answered with that only but what about the times when someone types a long, detailed text and the reply just comes as a simple ok? it really is irritating....for example, I text someone saying that how are you and what are you up to and whether you want to hangout or not, the reply comes 'k'...so what to understand from that answer? whether that someone was saying that he/she was fine or he/she is doing 'k' at that moment?
These kinds of replies are rude....if you don't want to talk with someone or are busy, just tell them that rather than using a single letter.....that poor person wrote a long text just for nothing, so yeah maybe it was his/her fault that he/she wrote to someone but one can at least appreciate their efforts and write a meaningful reply or anything which would at least make him/her believe that yes, their text was properly viewed.....
One should try not to do such a thing and if one does, he/she should expect the same in future....
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My 21st Post: Busy

Give the word another look...doesn't it seems as if a bee was moving by your ear when you say 'busy'....the bees are one busy creatures and I guess that is the reason of calling a person who is tangled in his/her work busy...I don't know, just said it...
Days are getting busy...as much we grow, we get involved in various activities and there is so much to do but still I always had a a believe that no one, I mean no one in this world can be busy 24/7....that is just impossible...someone saying that they couldn't get back to you cause they were busy does seems alright unless that someone is replying after a month or so....now there is some error there...if you are a part of someone's life, then there is no option of being busy...who says spend the whole day with that particular person, giving them a minute and showing that you exist is all they require...
I am currently busy in many things...there are studies, house chores, football and much much more but still I manage to sit on my bed and write at least 200 word long post so that you guys can read....I still am able to keep in touch with people through facebook or my mobile....now I don't keep on telling people that I am busy, instead I am there....it just needs a little management of time and stuff....if I can do it then definitely anyone can....giving an excuse of being busy at times is foolish....
There are times when we really get busy and have to concentrate on one work but that doesn't mean we lose a contact for weeks....that in my eyes is just a way to lie....if you don't want to talk to someone, just tell them instead of making up words....you think your truth would hurt them? definitely it would but your lie would kill them....just tell them that you need some space or you are fed up with them, but in a better way that is....telling someone that you don't get time all day just to message once, is just like holding the urge to go to toilet just telling the brain that you are busy, would go in a day or two....we don't see that happening...
Try to give things the priority they deserve...do complete your stuff and instead of hanging up a busy sign, get down to work and complete it all....if you don't do it in time, things may loosen up and maybe if it is a person you are saying that to, would move out one day....instead of losing someone or something, just widen your premises and try to consume your time properly....
Tc and do comment....

My 3rd Post: Death Scene

life ends

with a sorrow in hands

the one we loved

can never be hugged

that is a very tragic instance in our lives....we don't want to miss someone dear to us no matter how much we tell them that we hate them...we still want their presence.....the thought that they are breathing soothes our mind and lets us live....
at times, I start thinking that it would really be easy for me if I left before the ones I love cause then I won't have any sorrow of losing someone but then I think how would it be for the people who truly love me...I know life goes on but still how intense would their pain be....is being selfish here a good thing really? I don't know, I simply confuse myself and roam my head outta that topic....
when we go to someone's funeral, we end up seeing different types of people...some are sitting in a corner who seem aloof from their surrounding, some gagging in a group of people and view the spot as a perfect hangout, some are terribly sorry for the loss of that person and pay condolence to the family and there are even those who didn't care for that dead soul their entire life but they truly miss them when he/she remains no more....
looking into the details of the scenario, we find people crying cause they are truly hurt and we also find those who try to shed tears just cause others may see and cheer their name....in my society, I also find people who join the family at those times just to get free lunch....these type of people enter when food is served and leave when they are hungry no more....
I really find this disturbing cause now a days rarely someone cares about someone's deaths...the hearts are rusted to an extent that they have forgotten the thought that one day they will be the ones' who would chair that event and also a day when the whole setup would be for them...what if people act same at those times? just think, if you are chairing the death ceremony of someone you love the most and find people laughing, won't that hurt more than the death of that someone?
so respect the dead and support the ones' who lost someone rather than being a pain to their eyes and their hearts.....
may all the people who died till today and afterwards be blessed by my Lord and be cherished with Heaven...Ameen
Tc....