Give the word another look...doesn't it seems as if a bee was moving by your ear when you say 'busy'....the bees are one busy creatures and I guess that is the reason of calling a person who is tangled in his/her work busy...I don't know, just said it...
Days are getting busy...as much we grow, we get involved in various activities and there is so much to do but still I always had a a believe that no one, I mean no one in this world can be busy 24/7....that is just impossible...someone saying that they couldn't get back to you cause they were busy does seems alright unless that someone is replying after a month or so....now there is some error there...if you are a part of someone's life, then there is no option of being busy...who says spend the whole day with that particular person, giving them a minute and showing that you exist is all they require...
I am currently busy in many things...there are studies, house chores, football and much much more but still I manage to sit on my bed and write at least 200 word long post so that you guys can read....I still am able to keep in touch with people through facebook or my mobile....now I don't keep on telling people that I am busy, instead I am there....it just needs a little management of time and stuff....if I can do it then definitely anyone can....giving an excuse of being busy at times is foolish....
There are times when we really get busy and have to concentrate on one work but that doesn't mean we lose a contact for weeks....that in my eyes is just a way to lie....if you don't want to talk to someone, just tell them instead of making up words....you think your truth would hurt them? definitely it would but your lie would kill them....just tell them that you need some space or you are fed up with them, but in a better way that is....telling someone that you don't get time all day just to message once, is just like holding the urge to go to toilet just telling the brain that you are busy, would go in a day or two....we don't see that happening...
Try to give things the priority they deserve...do complete your stuff and instead of hanging up a busy sign, get down to work and complete it all....if you don't do it in time, things may loosen up and maybe if it is a person you are saying that to, would move out one day....instead of losing someone or something, just widen your premises and try to consume your time properly....
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