My 89th Post: Love After Marriage

I wonder how it would be to live suddenly with someone whom you may or may not have known but still you don't share feelings with that someone...that how someone feels after winding up in a wedlock with someone for whom there wasn't a feeling of love ever shared....the entire life changes from that moment on...you don't only have to care for what you always had to but there is a new person in your life whom you have to love no matter what, have to wake up each morning looking at his/her face....
This is just like going to a new school without the knowledge of anyone there....that is creepy but there we don't really have to love anyone to move on neither does anyone rely upon us....but in a marriage, the eyes of that someone follows our every move....both are in the state of adjusting to the other one and it is awkward for both....but what I am really trying to visualise is that how do two people, who are married without any kind of motive for each other, fall in love....is it because there ain't any other option for them or they develop a habit of being around that someone and then naturally just fall in love with time....
I don't know and most probably wouldn't ever know how it is to live with a stranger and fall in love with her because I intend to follow the path towards love marriage but still ain't sure about the future, anything can happen.....but what ever happens, I think arrange marriages are good too...it's an entirely different experience but eventually mostly everyone falls in love....how, not sure but I would just go with my theory that with time, people become habitual of their surroundings or the ones near them....with time, a husband starts caring for his wife as a bestowed duty upon him by the world and with care there are moments when there is a spark developed in between them which lightens up the relation and that care somehow, maybe magically, becomes love....love which makes a couple live and die together in this world with the image of each other in their eyes.....
The love which develops in the hearts of both man and woman is a blessing from the heaven....just think if that love didn't develop, it would be just two strangers living together under a roof in a single room without any feelings....life would be way too complicated for anyone to understand....a wife working day and night to look after her husband's family, would be just a duty and duties can also be performed by machines...the only difference would be that machines can't raise children and people can.....but, that isn't what happens....two strangers fall in love, never ending love...they may drift apart at times but still, love binds them together....the best gift of marriage, someone to be there to love you even when that someone was no one until you signed a sheet of paper and agreed to be legally wed.....