My 121st Post: The One

Fairy tales, t.v dramas and every other script which is based upon the concept of love, somehow ends with the same story that the guy and the girl finally are together...there is this image fed into the audience's mind that the hero was meant to fall in love with heroine and no matter how much they fought or didn't get along, they would finally be together...there are always differences between them but with time, the expected couple always would evolve into a one soul two body kind of image....I mean come on, does this really happen in real life? Is there someone there we don't notice but keep on avoiding or having arguments with but is the one we are going to end up with as if we are a part of some play and the cameras are pointed at us....every show airs that like Richard Castle and Kate Beckett from Castle or Ross and Rachel from Friends....both of these couples always fought but in the end, they got together because they were meant for each other....
The one....so in my case or in any of yours' case, there is someone we know and maybe encounter but that someone is in our life but maybe we are in a stage of ups and downs with that someone...so basically, for me, she is just around the corner and is in my play but we aren't together and won't get together until the time is right...can this be true...I mean the main lead in my play, the one who I am going to be with for the rest of my life is here in my life but I don't really see her that way or maybe she doesn't notices me as the one for her....I might have loved her once, but she didn't...then there might have been a time when she loved me but I didn't and so on so fore but we never confronted each other and moved on....then comes a time when we both would realise that there is no one else in this world meant for us rather than the one we are thinking of and we finally fall in love....
This can't be true...this is just like a fairytale come true...fairy tales don't come true but if they do, then these are really messed up but on the other hand there are mostly beautiful ones...if each one of these stories are properly traced down from the beginning of time till the end then Shakespeare's plays wouldn't even be known to the worst stages in this world....
I really don't know whether it is true or not but I do know for a fact that what so ever my story is or going to be, I really want to know or wait better, I really want it to be written down....the day am going to get together with that one, I would write down our whole story and maybe she was here all along but we never really knew...maybe the one is always around the corner and just waiting for the notion to play our part and get together....this gives a hope to look out for that one so if someone broke up with you, just means that the one who is really meant for you is around the corner just waiting for the cue....

My 82nd Post: Words

Different letters when placed in a random order, usually map out nothing but those few letters when spelled correctly, make out a word which has a proper meaning and a sence of use....a word is something used to define an action, an emotion, some thing, or maybe is someone's name....so different words stand out for different things....the tricky part about a word is that at times a single word may have two or more than two meanings....it just matters upon where you place it because words have both a beautiful and a catastrophic meanings...
As a child, we are always taught the use of words....we are told of how and where we can use a certain word and some words hold a sence of respect which we are told to use mostly with our elders....but what our elders forget is that we learn by their conversations not only by their personal lectures....if they lay down rules of guidance without the act upon them, then there is no use to it because with time the rules are forgotten and what remains is how and where those words were used.....
Words may become the most strongest weapon a person has....what he uters is paid more attention and remains in history more than what he does at times....because words can be repeated and moved forward in other conversations but noone would be able to forward someone's act, that is if no video recording is available....the proper use of words is important because same words can ignite a fight and can bring peace between two parties....it just depends upon how someone uses them and the way they stress upon them....if in some party someone during a speech says 'I' in a calm tone, then noone would really grasp it but on the other hand if that same person puts a little stress upon 'I', people would have different conclusions about him....they might see him as a selfish person or someone who is trying to state or defend himself in that dilemma....
The only confusion whirling around my head is that at times when you define someone or something, no matter how true you might be, others would point out that you were the wrong one specially by being harsh in your choice of words....it is just like when you might say that someone has a rude behaviour, people might take it strongly and on the other hand you define someone's behaviour as a harsh one, people may twist it in some other way....if the words are both exactly the same then why not to accept the fact that the sayer is trying to be straight in his wordings and is just clearly pointing it out....but no, people want diplomatic answers which might not hurt someone's feelings....though I might be wrong here but I think that giving one straight answer is better than playing with words....I believe that when we play with words, which some times I do as well, we really don't want the listener to exactly get a hold of the truth we are speaking about....we still intend to keep their mind confused and manage our way out of the situation....ain't that just something wrong we were taught not to do? but again what we were taught as a kid, is only till when we were kids not when we get mature enough because then people expect us to move along the society and agree upon their facts no matter how wrong we feel they might be, but still move in some way that it might not offend them....
So this all is really confusing because we can't bluntly talk and speak the truth as it might be understood and would mark someone wrong....so why to speak of the truth in the first place if we still intend to appreciate the wrong in one way or an other and accept it as the society's flaw....the thing is that accepting it would encourage in its growth but why to care...
Well, I really don't have the answer here...if someone really can ease down my confusion clearly debating against my points, then please help me and all those who might think in this way....
Tc, comment and do give it a thought if you really want a positive change in the society.....

My 7th Post: LIE

It is a simple three letter word which has the power to manipulate world's most strongest mind...lie, means a deception.....such a statement, which can't be proved but yet exists cause the creator of that lie believes in the manipulation....
Through out centuries, from the time 'Lie' was invented, there has been a change in coarse in the behavior of people....they have started to take things for granted and most of them feel that lying is the best way to cover up their flaws...they really don't care who they are hurting or what the consequence might be....they only want to feel safe and for a while, they do...
All the liars, do they ever think that lying breaks someone's heart? it really hurts when the person you really trusted or you thought would remain sincere to you lies just cause to hide something which is meaningless....yes I believe that something meaningless to someone, may be valuable to other but instead of lying, the topic can be ended or the truth can be told.....if someone lies in order to save someone else and that lie doesn't involves you then it is a different case but if someone lies about something which is kinda a part of your life, that hurts....
Like for example, someone states that he/she goes to sleep at around 1 am and after that it would be difficult to talk to you cause of family issues or etc and closes it with a statement asking you to trust what he/she said....you trusted the whole statement but after a while get to know that whatever you were told, only meant for you....instead of sleeping, that someone is busy with other friends and keeps on chatting....it becomes clear that all of that was a lie....this is not a big issue at all....the person didn't want to talk to you further so made up a story so that a boundary could be set up but lying was never the option....when it is acknowledged that it was a lie, the distance increases in the relation....someone close to you lied just to ditch you for no good is like buying a Rolls Royce and giving it to your wife to drive (no offence girls :P)...instead of lying, he/she could have said clearly that they wanna maintain a distance or something like that....
In other case someone may lie to their little kid on the death of his/her father that daddy is gone on a trip to some place....and when the time comes, they reveal the truth...lying in order to keep someone's heart is not a crime...lying is a crime only till it hurts someone or ruins something...
Like in the first example, the person lied to, won't trust the liar again and would like to go away from him/her cause the trust dies with a lie...and it should be kept in mind that lies never remain alive forever, a day comes when the light of truth reveals the true identity.....

Take care people and please avoid from lying cause that hurts and one day the same could happen to you.....