My 97th Post: Abruptive Texts

The first thing which we do normally after opening our eyes these days is to check for any texts upon our mobiles....one may not have clean clothes to wear but would definitely have a sms package to consume....everybody these days is trapped into the world of texting and the day when no texts are received or sent, is a day without life....well that is mostly the thinking of many, specially youngsters....every time there would be a cell phone in their hands and they would be busy in texting....we have become so much habitual of texting that now most of us can text without even looking at the screen and there are those who can perform various tasks while texting....

I, myself, am fond of texting and I do text a lot in a day...though there are days when I don't but still I manage to send messages on Facebook or sites like that....so texting is essential whether I have a mobile with me or not.....
Well this post isn't really about people texting....I mean it is but not really about normal texts....there are people who I hate to text and I guess most of you might have the same feeling against those texters....texters who reply you with a single letter text saying 'k' or something like that....ok so, I mean it is fine for one to reply simply okay when one just asks a plain question or something which really can be answered with that only but what about the times when someone types a long, detailed text and the reply just comes as a simple ok? it really is irritating....for example, I text someone saying that how are you and what are you up to and whether you want to hangout or not, the reply comes 'k'...so what to understand from that answer? whether that someone was saying that he/she was fine or he/she is doing 'k' at that moment?
These kinds of replies are rude....if you don't want to talk with someone or are busy, just tell them that rather than using a single letter.....that poor person wrote a long text just for nothing, so yeah maybe it was his/her fault that he/she wrote to someone but one can at least appreciate their efforts and write a meaningful reply or anything which would at least make him/her believe that yes, their text was properly viewed.....
One should try not to do such a thing and if one does, he/she should expect the same in future....
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My 82nd Post: Words

Different letters when placed in a random order, usually map out nothing but those few letters when spelled correctly, make out a word which has a proper meaning and a sence of use....a word is something used to define an action, an emotion, some thing, or maybe is someone's name....so different words stand out for different things....the tricky part about a word is that at times a single word may have two or more than two meanings....it just matters upon where you place it because words have both a beautiful and a catastrophic meanings...
As a child, we are always taught the use of words....we are told of how and where we can use a certain word and some words hold a sence of respect which we are told to use mostly with our elders....but what our elders forget is that we learn by their conversations not only by their personal lectures....if they lay down rules of guidance without the act upon them, then there is no use to it because with time the rules are forgotten and what remains is how and where those words were used.....
Words may become the most strongest weapon a person has....what he uters is paid more attention and remains in history more than what he does at times....because words can be repeated and moved forward in other conversations but noone would be able to forward someone's act, that is if no video recording is available....the proper use of words is important because same words can ignite a fight and can bring peace between two parties....it just depends upon how someone uses them and the way they stress upon them....if in some party someone during a speech says 'I' in a calm tone, then noone would really grasp it but on the other hand if that same person puts a little stress upon 'I', people would have different conclusions about him....they might see him as a selfish person or someone who is trying to state or defend himself in that dilemma....
The only confusion whirling around my head is that at times when you define someone or something, no matter how true you might be, others would point out that you were the wrong one specially by being harsh in your choice of words....it is just like when you might say that someone has a rude behaviour, people might take it strongly and on the other hand you define someone's behaviour as a harsh one, people may twist it in some other way....if the words are both exactly the same then why not to accept the fact that the sayer is trying to be straight in his wordings and is just clearly pointing it out....but no, people want diplomatic answers which might not hurt someone's feelings....though I might be wrong here but I think that giving one straight answer is better than playing with words....I believe that when we play with words, which some times I do as well, we really don't want the listener to exactly get a hold of the truth we are speaking about....we still intend to keep their mind confused and manage our way out of the situation....ain't that just something wrong we were taught not to do? but again what we were taught as a kid, is only till when we were kids not when we get mature enough because then people expect us to move along the society and agree upon their facts no matter how wrong we feel they might be, but still move in some way that it might not offend them....
So this all is really confusing because we can't bluntly talk and speak the truth as it might be understood and would mark someone wrong....so why to speak of the truth in the first place if we still intend to appreciate the wrong in one way or an other and accept it as the society's flaw....the thing is that accepting it would encourage in its growth but why to care...
Well, I really don't have the answer here...if someone really can ease down my confusion clearly debating against my points, then please help me and all those who might think in this way....
Tc, comment and do give it a thought if you really want a positive change in the society.....