My 68th Post: Forcing Ain't Respecting

The key to earn respect is by respecting others...you can't just go around people and hope to be respected....it requires hard work and if I continue with that statement, I would be completely wrong....being respected isn't tough...you just need to be the right person in the right situation...honor others and treat them nicely....that is it...a perfect recipe of earning respect...but, people have forgotten that....they think it is a game, tougher than the game of thrones...they think in order to earn respect, they need to have a game and play random tricks...trust me, that only fools a person but in the end the respect meter stays empty or in my case, it just falls behind the line...

Being strong and aggressive or powerful due to the job status, doesn't really earns anything instead it just plants a sense of fear in a person's heart which leads it to bow in front of that mighty one....that someone isn't respected, it is just seen as a duty by someone who fears him or her....in other cases, people think that by doing sweet talk and showering flowers upon someone would earn them respect...they are again the ones who have little knowledge...talking to someone sweetly is one thing but sweet talking to earn respect is foolishness....that doesn't really works because they kind of force people to act as if they did respect them and due to that, they hide their true feelings and sometimes they spit them out behind that someone's back...o there is one more kind which I may also fall into....the ones who are simply respected because of someone else....most of the people know me because they respect my parents and due to that, they find it as their duty to care for me and respect me as well....but I am truly aware of this fact and I accept it and maybe I don't misuse that...if I do, then I do a really bad thing because in a way I am not worthy of what I am getting...instead of being a jerk, I simply should be thankful for that....but there are people who take advantage of that and instead of realizing the real deal, they think they are loved....so to all of them I would like to make a wake up call.....
Be sweet, gentle and caring and try not to lie or hurt someone's feelings....lower down the attitude and imagine yourself as a nomal human being rather than a diva or something like that...just lower your shades and stand shoulder to shoulder with people...if someone follows these, then that someone would be respected from heart....doing great things doesn't only mean to invent internet or stuff like that...making a crying kid smile, is far most the greatest thing a person can do....being simple is great and great people are respected in each and every society....be great, not a poser as respect is earned, not taken....
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