Showing posts with label win. Show all posts
Showing posts with label win. Show all posts

Thursday, 4 April 2013

My 84th Post: Independent Women


As I was driving, a thought crossed my mind...there was a time once when the roads were filled with man drivers....the roads were our battle fields and we ruled it from ages but now, I see long haired, goggle eyed or creatures in scarves buzzing in from every possible angle or in any manner available at choice....those beautiful and breath drying creatures are the females of the human species....once they were locked off in their house chores, but now they are out trying to step besides the alpha male....
Well, am not going to debate upon who is better amongst both because that topic won't ever come to a conclusion as somehow it is going to lead towards unfair votes.....what I am typing here is that these days, you might find a woman in any designated post which once a male thought he can only master....well not in all but yes, surely in a lot of those positions women not only have stood up straight, but also have performed much better than men....at each step, on either side, where once stood a competitor male now stands a female waiting to step up and conquer the position with pride....
Since the beginning of this world, women weren't given their proper share in the upbringing of this humanity....few amongst many gave respect to women but many degraded them and mocked upon their existence forgetting the fact that they once came from the womb of a women.....man surely is stronger than
women because that is how he is made but his power blocks his senses and he forgets that his power exists just because there was a mother who held him in for 9 months and then brought him up.....the savage nature of man, tortured women and then came a time of uprising by women....they stood up and walked behind men and now they are walking strong besides men....
From the right to vote, they themselves are standing as nominees.....time have changed and they, the women,  are changing with each passing day....today's woman, doesn't relay upon anyone...she alone can carry herself to the edge of success....she has the might, the will and the determination to stand on a cliff and shout out her name with pride....man is merely weak these days, its not the woman who requires support, but it is the man who needs a hand of a woman.....
Well, being independent and standing for their rights is good but most get carried away....a lot of those women do the same blunder which once man did....he never respected the position of women and now, women are doing the same...in their pride and ego, they at times forget that the other species living as a human also needs respect....women just flaunt off in their heads that they are the best and nothing can be compared to what they have....am sorry to all who feel that way....man built this world with woman beside him, so both are required when we talk about the prosperity of humanity....so live independent but always remember that the balance lies with the hard work of both men and women....

Tuesday, 14 August 2012

My 37th Post: A New Start

Things do change with time and there comes a time when we hit a road block.....then we have to change the direction of our mind just instead of sitting there and staring at the blank wall....no matter what we do, that wall won't budge if it is the dead end.....what ever trick we apply, we will still sit there waiting one day or another.....it is better to stand up and try a new route...what if that gets us more successful than the one we were already headed on.....what if that was the path which was the destiny which we were ignoring ever since, so instead of losing hope, it is better to start of again.....
Nothing goes as we expect it to....there is always a hinge loose which creates the squeak....and that little sound may turn into a thunder...at times that can be fixed with a little adjustment but there is always a risk of wasting energy upon that.....when it can't be fixed, it needs to be changed rather than sitting there and watching it become worst and then just wondering where you went wrong....it is good to realize the wrong you did but that doesn't means you give up and sit there just to curse that and make yourself guilty....
Realizing just means to make better efforts in the future and overcome the mistakes you already made instead of repeating them cause repeating them would again bring you back to where you already had given up.....there are road blocks in everyone's life, but only special people overcome them....you can be one of the special ones, for that you only have to reevaluate what you did but most importantly straighten your mind in order to fight the sorrow.....losing and getting defeated is a part of this tale but accepting defeat is not.....you can stand up and try once more...so what you couldn't do it today, you would definitely do it if you give it a try tomorrow....that is the reason we are offered a new morning after a tiring day....what ever we couldn't do today, we get to try it again tomorrow.....
Motivate yourself so that you may never be able to give up and keep thinking that its not the defeated part that matters, its accepting defeat which defines the kind of a person you are....and trust me, no one really likes a person who accepts defeat...everyone wants a warrior and they deserve one, so if you give up, no one would want you around and that would make your relatives feel upset cause they wouldn't have excepted to see a defeated person in you.....
Make your family proud at least by not giving up the right thing....keep on trying and one day would surely come when you would succeed.....that day no matter what, you would hold your head high and walk down the ramp as an undefeated champ....
Keep motivating people no matter who it is and live heads high being proud that you didn't give up.....
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